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Who a“R”e Your Friends?
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Article Overview: Most people don’t have problems making friends. The challenge we all have is finding friends that aren’t detrimental to our dreams and desires. We offer friendship to many people but may soon find the association isn’t healthy for our future or us.
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Who a“R”e Your Friends?
Most people don’t have problems making friends. The
challenge we all have is finding friends that aren’t detrimental to our dreams
and desires. We offer friendship to many people but may soon find the
association isn’t healthy for our future or us.
Everyone we
associate with has an influence upon us. No matter how much time we spend with
them, they will affect our attitude and perspective on situations. We open our
minds to others to communicate and interact with them and in doing so we take a
little of their vision within us. We attempt to be good listeners but we must
not let their ill feelings and discouragements take root inside our minds. We
battle these daily for ourselves and need to always be resistant to allowing it
a foothold.
Now
the question is, who “R” your friends?
I use the letter “R” in this question because the types of “FRIENDS”
about us can be described in words beginning with “R”.
Many of them
are “Rejecters”, they don’t like or agree with anything that is different. They
are set in their ways and thoughts and won’t even listen to another point of
view. These people will only destroy your hopes and dreams and are best left
alone as much as possible.
The next type is the “Reducers”, every thing they
have to offer is used to belittle and degrade you and your inspiration. Most
give the impression that they are superior to everyone and their answers are
the only right ones available. If they don’t do it, it won’t done correctly so
don’t bother trying.
After these are the “Reflectors”, they act as any
reflector of light would. The responses they give are vague and without
conscience consideration, they are mentally numb to the conversation. Much of their expression and interaction is
merely a nod of the head or thoughtless agreement. They offer very little
personal input and are almost animated in reply.
Next are the “Refiners”, these have an interest in
the communication and willing discuss the situation with its positive and
negative aspects. They give suggestions and perceptions of the entire subject
while offering you an opportunity clarify your thought process. Friends with
this expertise should be held closely and their opinions dearly valued.
Lastly are the “Refreshers”, the fresh and cleansing
air of relationships. This group is supportive and open to your deepest
thoughts and feelings. They will not always agree with your views but do listen
and give attentive consideration to the conversation. They will inject their
views and opinions while leaving you an opportunity to reply and evaluate the
discussion. You are on equal terms and supportive of each other’s individualism.
This is the type of friendship each if us desire.
We should always try to surround ourselves with
people who are supportive of us without being patronizing. Interaction with
those who are like-minded and offer a new outlook on things is desirable to
most. We are displeased by the complacent attitudes of most people and search
for a compassionate ear. I wonder how many others are looking for the same type
of people as we are and shouldn’t w be that person?
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- Friendliness is closely related to the concept of "permission marketing" as articulated by Seth Godin. The subtitle of his book says it all:
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- Greetings Friends,
Re: QUESTION: What was the last book you read? Would you recomme
- Right now I'm reading [i:3d7bb3lw]How to Win Friends and Influence People[/i:3d7bb3lw] by Dale Carnegie. I'm not finished yet but I can already say that I highly recommend it!
Re: How do you budget your life?
- Here is my financial management categories for today:
15% Long Term Savings;
10% Home Expenses;
45% Business and Marketing charges;
10% Friends (Meeting);
20$ Scientific and Law Books.
But this will change when it is August or September.
Orxan
Re: Is being too connected pushing your business forward or back
- The problem with social media sites is that you can't just submit more and more links. you need to have friends, and build a social community, this way your friend may become customers, or their friends will be. Friends take time, online and offline. there is no automation to this process.
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Many of them
are “Rejecters”, they don’t like or agree with anything that is different. They
are set in their ways and thoughts and won’t even listen to another point of
view. These people will only destroy your hopes and dreams and are best left
alone as much as possible.
The next type is the “Reducers”, every thing they
have to offer is used to belittle and degrade you and your inspiration. Most
give the impression that they are superior to everyone and their answers are
the only right ones available. If they don’t do it, it won’t done correctly so
don’t bother trying.
After these are the “Reflectors”, they act as any
reflector of light would. The responses they give are vague and without
conscience consideration, they are mentally numb to the conversation. Much of their expression and interaction is
merely a nod of the head or thoughtless agreement. They offer very little
personal input and are almost animated in reply.
Next are the “Refiners”, these have an interest in
the communication and willing discuss the situation with its positive and
negative aspects. They give suggestions and perceptions of the entire subject
while offering you an opportunity clarify your thought process. Friends with
this expertise should be held closely and their opinions dearly valued.
Lastly are the “Refreshers”, the fresh and cleansing
air of relationships. This group is supportive and open to your deepest
thoughts and feelings. They will not always agree with your views but do listen
and give attentive consideration to the conversation. They will inject their
views and opinions while leaving you an opportunity to reply and evaluate the
discussion. You are on equal terms and supportive of each other’s individualism.
This is the type of friendship each if us desire.
We should always try to surround ourselves with
people who are supportive of us without being patronizing. Interaction with
those who are like-minded and offer a new outlook on things is desirable to
most. We are displeased by the complacent attitudes of most people and search
for a compassionate ear. I wonder how many others are looking for the same type
of people as we are and shouldn’t w be that person?
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Article Tags:
associate,
attitude,
dreams and desires,
friendship,
influence,
relationships
Referred by: http://jaykubassek.com
About the Author: Duane Hatfield
RSS for Duane's articles - Visit Duane's website
I am a Christian and desire salvation through the blood of Jesus for everyone. I am an entrepreneur and want to help others improve their situations in this life and the next. Being part of an education company gives me opportunity to instruct and mentor people in that arena of life.
Click here to visit Duane's website
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- Friendliness is closely related to the concept of "permission marketing" as articulated by Seth Godin. The subtitle of his book says it all:
"Permission Marketing: Turning Strangers into Friends and Friends into Customers."
The old method was "interruption marketing" where you suddenly get an ad in your face whether you want it or not...
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- Greetings Friends,
Re: QUESTION: What was the last book you read? Would you recomme
- Right now I'm reading [i:3d7bb3lw]How to Win Friends and Influence People[/i:3d7bb3lw] by Dale Carnegie. I'm not finished yet but I can already say that I highly recommend it!
Re: How do you budget your life?
- Here is my financial management categories for today:
15% Long Term Savings;
10% Home Expenses;
45% Business and Marketing charges;
10% Friends (Meeting);
20$ Scientific and Law Books.
But this will change when it is August or September.
Orxan
Re: Is being too connected pushing your business forward or back
- The problem with social media sites is that you can't just submit more and more links. you need to have friends, and build a social community, this way your friend may become customers, or their friends will be. Friends take time, online and offline. there is no automation to this process.
Share this article with your friends. Fund someone's dream.
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After these are the “Reflectors”, they act as any
reflector of light would. The responses they give are vague and without
conscience consideration, they are mentally numb to the conversation. Much of their expression and interaction is
merely a nod of the head or thoughtless agreement. They offer very little
personal input and are almost animated in reply.
Next are the “Refiners”, these have an interest in
the communication and willing discuss the situation with its positive and
negative aspects. They give suggestions and perceptions of the entire subject
while offering you an opportunity clarify your thought process. Friends with
this expertise should be held closely and their opinions dearly valued.
Lastly are the “Refreshers”, the fresh and cleansing
air of relationships. This group is supportive and open to your deepest
thoughts and feelings. They will not always agree with your views but do listen
and give attentive consideration to the conversation. They will inject their
views and opinions while leaving you an opportunity to reply and evaluate the
discussion. You are on equal terms and supportive of each other’s individualism.
This is the type of friendship each if us desire.
We should always try to surround ourselves with
people who are supportive of us without being patronizing. Interaction with
those who are like-minded and offer a new outlook on things is desirable to
most. We are displeased by the complacent attitudes of most people and search
for a compassionate ear. I wonder how many others are looking for the same type
of people as we are and shouldn’t w be that person?
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Razor cut-through!
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Success by Association
Dangers in Social Media for Those with ADHD
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Go Get Your Goals in 2008
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Network Marketing Is Connecting With People
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Article Tags:
associate,
attitude,
dreams and desires,
friendship,
influence,
relationships
Referred by: http://jaykubassek.com
About the Author: Duane Hatfield
RSS for Duane's articles - Visit Duane's website
I am a Christian and desire salvation through the blood of Jesus for everyone. I am an entrepreneur and want to help others improve their situations in this life and the next. Being part of an education company gives me opportunity to instruct and mentor people in that arena of life.
Click here to visit Duane's website
More from Duane Hatfield
Think Small
He Who Learns the Most Wins
Poison To Entrepreneurs
Why Begin With The End In Mind
Do The Difficult Things
Related Forum Posts
Re: pitching
- Friendliness is closely related to the concept of "permission marketing" as articulated by Seth Godin. The subtitle of his book says it all:
"Permission Marketing: Turning Strangers into Friends and Friends into Customers."
The old method was "interruption marketing" where you suddenly get an ad in your face whether you want it or not...
Maze Inc
- Greetings Friends,
Re: QUESTION: What was the last book you read? Would you recomme
- Right now I'm reading [i:3d7bb3lw]How to Win Friends and Influence People[/i:3d7bb3lw] by Dale Carnegie. I'm not finished yet but I can already say that I highly recommend it!
Re: How do you budget your life?
- Here is my financial management categories for today:
15% Long Term Savings;
10% Home Expenses;
45% Business and Marketing charges;
10% Friends (Meeting);
20$ Scientific and Law Books.
But this will change when it is August or September.
Orxan
Re: Is being too connected pushing your business forward or back
- The problem with social media sites is that you can't just submit more and more links. you need to have friends, and build a social community, this way your friend may become customers, or their friends will be. Friends take time, online and offline. there is no automation to this process.
Share this article with your friends. Fund someone's dream.
Leave a comment below or share on the left and you'll help support entrepreneurs in Africa through our partnership with Kiva.
Over $50,000 raised and counting - Please keep sharing! Learn more.
Lastly are the “Refreshers”, the fresh and cleansing
air of relationships. This group is supportive and open to your deepest
thoughts and feelings. They will not always agree with your views but do listen
and give attentive consideration to the conversation. They will inject their
views and opinions while leaving you an opportunity to reply and evaluate the
discussion. You are on equal terms and supportive of each other’s individualism.
This is the type of friendship each if us desire.
We should always try to surround ourselves with
people who are supportive of us without being patronizing. Interaction with
those who are like-minded and offer a new outlook on things is desirable to
most. We are displeased by the complacent attitudes of most people and search
for a compassionate ear. I wonder how many others are looking for the same type
of people as we are and shouldn’t w be that person?
Related Articles
Here is a Method For Managing Your Friends In The Workplace - Follow these 7 Simple Tips
Razor cut-through!
Annoying Facebook Apps
Why Don't I Have Friends?
Top Eight Characteristics Of True Friends
What To Post Or Not To Post
Success by Association
Dangers in Social Media for Those with ADHD
Easy Networking For Your Job Search
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Go Get Your Goals in 2008
Keeping in Touch: How to Avoid Return to Sender
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Match Your Marketing To Your Relationship With Your Market
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Tapping Friends and Family for Small Business Financing
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Article Tags:
associate,
attitude,
dreams and desires,
friendship,
influence,
relationships
Referred by: http://jaykubassek.com
About the Author: Duane Hatfield
RSS for Duane's articles - Visit Duane's website
I am a Christian and desire salvation through the blood of Jesus for everyone. I am an entrepreneur and want to help others improve their situations in this life and the next. Being part of an education company gives me opportunity to instruct and mentor people in that arena of life.
Click here to visit Duane's website
More from Duane Hatfield
Think Small
He Who Learns the Most Wins
Poison To Entrepreneurs
Why Begin With The End In Mind
Do The Difficult Things
Related Forum Posts
Re: pitching
- Friendliness is closely related to the concept of "permission marketing" as articulated by Seth Godin. The subtitle of his book says it all:
"Permission Marketing: Turning Strangers into Friends and Friends into Customers."
The old method was "interruption marketing" where you suddenly get an ad in your face whether you want it or not...
Maze Inc
- Greetings Friends,
Re: QUESTION: What was the last book you read? Would you recomme
- Right now I'm reading [i:3d7bb3lw]How to Win Friends and Influence People[/i:3d7bb3lw] by Dale Carnegie. I'm not finished yet but I can already say that I highly recommend it!
Re: How do you budget your life?
- Here is my financial management categories for today:
15% Long Term Savings;
10% Home Expenses;
45% Business and Marketing charges;
10% Friends (Meeting);
20$ Scientific and Law Books.
But this will change when it is August or September.
Orxan
Re: Is being too connected pushing your business forward or back
- The problem with social media sites is that you can't just submit more and more links. you need to have friends, and build a social community, this way your friend may become customers, or their friends will be. Friends take time, online and offline. there is no automation to this process.
Share this article with your friends. Fund someone's dream.
Leave a comment below or share on the left and you'll help support entrepreneurs in Africa through our partnership with Kiva.
Over $50,000 raised and counting - Please keep sharing! Learn more.
Here is a Method For Managing Your Friends In The Workplace - Follow these 7 Simple Tips
Razor cut-through!
Annoying Facebook Apps
Why Don't I Have Friends?
Top Eight Characteristics Of True Friends
What To Post Or Not To Post
Success by Association
Dangers in Social Media for Those with ADHD
Easy Networking For Your Job Search
Change Your Friends
Go Get Your Goals in 2008
Keeping in Touch: How to Avoid Return to Sender
Work-Life Balance Tip 17 - Put Friends Back into Your Life (Part One)
Network Marketing Is Connecting With People
When and How to Get Feedback on Your Book-in-Progress
Match Your Marketing To Your Relationship With Your Market
Home Stagers, Social Media Isn’t Just For Kids
Who Surrounds You?
Tapping Friends and Family for Small Business Financing
How to Make Friends on Facebook
Article Tags: associate, attitude, dreams and desires, friendship, influence, relationships
Referred by: http://jaykubassek.com
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Re: pitching
- Friendliness is closely related to the concept of "permission marketing" as articulated by Seth Godin. The subtitle of his book says it all:
"Permission Marketing: Turning Strangers into Friends and Friends into Customers."
The old method was "interruption marketing" where you suddenly get an ad in your face whether you want it or not...
Maze Inc
- Greetings Friends,
Re: QUESTION: What was the last book you read? Would you recomme
- Right now I'm reading [i:3d7bb3lw]How to Win Friends and Influence People[/i:3d7bb3lw] by Dale Carnegie. I'm not finished yet but I can already say that I highly recommend it!
Re: How do you budget your life?
- Here is my financial management categories for today:
15% Long Term Savings;
10% Home Expenses;
45% Business and Marketing charges;
10% Friends (Meeting);
20$ Scientific and Law Books.
But this will change when it is August or September.
Orxan
Re: Is being too connected pushing your business forward or back
- The problem with social media sites is that you can't just submit more and more links. you need to have friends, and build a social community, this way your friend may become customers, or their friends will be. Friends take time, online and offline. there is no automation to this process.
Share this article with your friends. Fund someone's dream.
Leave a comment below or share on the left and you'll help support entrepreneurs in Africa through our partnership with Kiva. Over $50,000 raised and counting - Please keep sharing! Learn more.
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