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10 Tips for Reluctant Networkers

Written by: Alvah Parker

Article Overview: These tips are from The Networking Survival Guide by Diane Darling and were in the Boston Globe

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10 Tips for Reluctant Networkers

These tips are from The Networking Survival Guide by Diane Darling and were in the Boston Globe on April 1, 2004.

1. Give a firm handshake: Two pumps and let go

2. Do not arrive hungry. It is difficult to juggle food with handshaking and business card exchange.

3. Come with five or six questions you’ve rehearsed out loud that will get the dialogue started

4. Get there early. It is much less intimidating to arrive first than to enter a crowded room where people are already engaged in conversation

5. Videotape yourself in a mock interview to uncover your bad habits. Ask your closest supporters for honest feed back.

6. Maximize your time in line by talking to the person in front or in back of you.

7. Be prepared: Take a network kit: a pen that you can lose, a Sharpie - to embolden your name on the name badge - breath mints and business cards.

8. Keep your drink in your left hand so your right hand won’t feel clammy when you shake hands.

9. Keep your business card in your right pocket and the ones you collect in your left pocket.

10. Follow up: Keep the business cards you have collected and pursue your leads courteously and with respect. The biggest mistake is not following up

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Alvah Parker is a Practice Advisor (The Attorneys’ Coach) and a Career Changers’ Coach as well as publisher of "Parker’s Points", an email tip list and "Road to Success", an ezine. Subscribe now to these free monthly publications at her website http://www.asparker.com/samples.html and receive a free values assessment. Work becomes more meaningful and enjoyable when you work from your values. Alvah Parker began her career as a high school chemistry teacher. She later transitioned to a sales career at AT&T. As a Sales Professional at AT&T for 15 years she was elected to the prestigious Counsel of Leaders for the top 3% of the sales force. After leaving AT&T she transitioned into a coaching career.  Alvah is a senior coach for Boxwood Technology where she coaches association members on career issues and also  a SCORE Business Counselor where she advises and counsels small business owners. Parker’s Value Program© enables her clients to find their own way to work that is more fulfilling and profitable. Her clients are attorneys, entrepreneurs, managers and people in transition who want to find work that is in line with their own values. Alvah is found on the web at http://www.asparker.com. She may also be reached at 781-598-0388.

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