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Stop the Drama

Written by: Diana Long

Article Overview: How the "Little Things" Become Huge Obstacles and What You Can Do About It

Stop the Drama

You've got big dreams, you've got your vision, and you've carefully constructed your plan.

That's all you need, right?

Not a chance!

It takes more than a really great plan to get the juicy results that you desire.

One of the biggest obstacles to your success could be: YOU!

Are you avoiding things that really need to be taken care of?

You're not alone; it's human nature to shy away from the unpleasantries! It's much easier to ignore, procrastinate, or distract ourselves from our troubles.

For a while, this strategy can work for us. Out of sight, out of mind! It's a lovely strategy, isn't it? As a problem occurs, put it off until "tomorrow." The problem is, this strategy works so beautifully at first that you get into the habit of glossing over such things as:
• Annoying ongoing issues with your computer
• Nagging thoughts about updating your will
• Worrisome thoughts about trademarking your business name or product
• Even minor health concerns - your heart skipping beats or your overdue dental exam
Just as you embark on something crucial, uh oh --
• Your tooth suddenly flares up
• Your web support person disappears from the planet
• Your computer dies dramatically, leaving you with a blue screen and all of your files vanish into thin air
Instead of developing that profitable new product, creating that big proposal or designing a package, you're busy in "reaction" mode, taking care of something that's grown into a major inconvenience. That "little" thing you've been ignoring has suddenly become a "huge" thing that takes you away from your highest priorities.

Here are 3 quick tips to curb the drama:
1. Quit Procrastinating! What are the squeaky wheels in your life? Instead of ignoring them, handle them! Procrastination has a way of catching up with us and the cumulative effect can really throw you into a tailspin. Not fun. Definitely not productive.
2. Clean Sweep Your Business - Take an honest inventory of which areas need your focus. Is it your systems, client care management, how you keep your financial records, or your overbooked schedule? Make the decision to up-level one of these areas this week! You will be glad you did.
3. Upgrade Your Self Care - Are you taking good care of you? How's your diet, fitness, and energy levels? Do one thing this week to increase your well being. Try a new supplement, get a massage, or schedule a training session. Watch your energy soar!

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