Irresistible...Who Me?

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Irresistible ....Who Me?

Heads turn when an attractive person walks by. It is a fact of life. Confident people are
irresistible. Confidence radiates from a person when they stand tall, walk with a sense of
purpose, look people in the eyes and smile! Our image is an outward reflection of our personal
confidence and self-esteem.

Appearance Counts: If you were the cover of a book, would anyone want to open and
ead the contents? One of the first qualifiers we use to assess a person is how they dress.
We look to see whether we could comfortably introduce a person to our family members
and friends.

Another qualifier is a person's hairstyle. A great hairstyle has just the right amount
of sex, money and power appeal. Sometimes people have too much sex appeal in
their hairstyle or their hairstyle is too severe and uninviting. The look of money
and prosperity comes from shiny, healthy hair cut in a flattering style and a natural
looking color.

Single people disqualify themselves from people of the opposite sex by dressing
in unappealing clothing. Married people cause their spouse to lose interest in them
by not paying attention to their appearance. The clothing we select speaks volumes.
Men and women fall in to one of these four basic categories:
Dressing for women
Dressing for men
Dressing with universal appeal
Dressing with no appeal

When women dress for the approval of other women it is dressing "safe." Everything is
color coordinated with matching accessories. Dress with pizzazz and your success will
increase. Always dress to impress yourself and to feel attractive and confident.

Make a person special by paying them a compliment.

Top Fashion No-No's for Men (according to women)
Un-ironed clothes
Wearing a round necked undershirt - a V neck or no undershirt is a better choice
Nerdy shoes or sandals
The few remaining strands of hair combed across a balding head
Buttons loose or a hem hanging
Hair parted down the middle
Fingernail and toe nails in need of a manicure
A big stomach with the belt tied below the stomach
Buttocks showing when you bend over
Ties: tied too short, knot too large, skinny ties
Poor table manners
Chewing gum and cigarette smoking

Top Fashion No-No's for Women (according to men)
Hair that needs coloring/root touch up
Too much cleavage showing-please leave something to the imagination
Chewing gum and cigarette smoking
Nails too long or painted in strange colors such as blue, black or green
Too much make-up
Wearing trousers/pants all of the time
Garments that are too tight
Chunky shoes
Poor table manners

Cheerfulness, contentment and confidence are great beautifiers and famous preservers of good looks!

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Gloria Starr, President and Founder of Gloria Starr International. Established 1983. www.gloriastarr.com Areas of expertise include impression management, business and dining etiquette, communication skills and leadership. Ms. Starr has been recognized by the United States Government as a consultant of extraordinary ability and talent and ranked in the top 5% of consultants worldwide. The Society for the Advancement of Consulting awarded Ms. Starr "Excellence in Consulting and Coaching." Gloria Starr is the strategic alliance partner for the Qatar Center for Career Development. Her Excellency Maryam Sheikha Bint Khaled Al-Thani and Dr. Shaukat Chandna selected Ms. Starr to teach etiquette and protocol in Qatar. Her trademarked programs the Executive Finishing School, the Modern Day Finishing School and the Professional Athletes School have been conducted worldwide.
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