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Secrets of Being Irresistible

Guest post by: Gloria Starr

Article Overview: Change your image and your attitude, change your life!

Secrets of Being Irresistible

Irresistible ....Who Me? Heads turn when an attractive person walks by. It is a fact of life. Confident people are irresistible. Confidence radiates from a person when they stand tall, walk with a sense of purpose, look people in the eyes and smile! Our image is an outward reflection of our personal

confidence and self-esteem.

Appearance Counts: If you were the cover of a book, would anyone want to open and read the contents? One of the first qualifiers we use to assess a person is how they dress. We look to see whether we could comfortably introduce a person to our family members and friends.

Another qualifier is a person's hairstyle. A great hairstyle has just the right amount of sex, money and power appeal. Sometimes people have too much sex appeal in their hairstyle or their hairstyle is too severe and uninviting. The look of money and prosperity comes from shiny, healthy hair cut in a flattering style and

a natural looking color.

Single people disqualify themselves from people of the opposite sex by dressing in unappealing clothing. Married people cause their spouse to lose interest in them by not paying attention to their appearance.

The clothing we select speaks volumes. Men and women fall in to one of these four basic categories:

Dressing for women

Dressing for men

Dressing with universal appeal

Dressing with no appeal

When women dress for the approval of other women it is dressing "safe." Everything is color coordinated with matching accessories. Dress with pizzazz and your success will increase. Always dress to impress yourself

and to feel attractive and confident.

Make a person feel special by paying them a sincere compliment.

Top Fashion No-No's for Men (according to women)

Un-ironed clothes

Wearing a round necked undershirt - a V neck or no undershirt is a better choice

Nerdy shoes or sandals

The few remaining strands of hair combed across a balding head

Buttons loose or a hem hanging

Hair parted down the middle

Fingernail and toe nails in need of a manicure

A big stomach with the belt tied below the stomach

Buttocks showing when you bend over

Ties: tied too short, knot too large, skinny ties

Poor table manners

Chewing gum and cigarette smoking

Top Fashion No-No's for Women (according to men)

Hair that needs coloring/root touch up

Too much cleavage showing - please leave something to the imagination

Chewing gum and cigarette smoking

Nails too long or painted in strange colors such as blue, black or green

Too much make-up

Wearing trousers/pants all of the time

Garments that are too tight

Chunky shoes

Poor table manners

Cheerfulness, contentment and confidence are great beautifiers and famous preservers of good looks! Heads turn when an attractive person walks by. It is a fact of life. Confident people are irresistible. Your image is an outward reflection of your personal confidence and self-esteem.

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