Inquiries That Lead to Solution
Inquiries That Lead to Solution
If you are in a very anxious emotional state about what you think is the problem, try to calm yourself first, before going through the inquiries. It is hard to see any solution when you are focused on the problem. It is also easier to access your intuition when you are in a more relaxed state of mind.
I suggest writing down the question, closing your eyes, relaxing, and then let the answer come to you. Next, write down your answer and expand if necessary. It is also powerful if you get a partner to ask the questions aloud to you and let them write down your answer. This way you can stay in the “creative and connected” zone.
These do not have to be done in the order I have written below. Nor do you have to go through all of them. Use your own judgment.
Inquiries:
• What is the real issue here?
• What if there was no issue at all, except for the way I perceive the situation?
• How is the way that I’m thinking about the issue affecting my perception of it?
• If I were to choose to completely let go of all fear, anger, guilt, and insecurity around this situation, what would I see?
• What can I do immediately to feel more empowered?
• What is the most desirable outcome I’d like regarding this issue?
• What would it be like to not be so attached to this outcome?
• How am I trying to control the situation?
• What if I weren’t trying to prove myself right about the pieces of this that cause me stress?
• What can I focus on in my mind to give more energy towards what I do want?
• If I knew I couldn’t fail, no matter what, what is one positive action step I would take?
• Who can assist me with the solution?
• What is an affirmation I can say anytime I get gripped by my negative emotions that will immediately bring me into a higher state of power and connection?
• What is the impact I am making on others involved in this situation?
• Is it the impact that I want to make? If not, what IS the impact that I'm wanting?
• How do I want to be from this moment forward?
• In a past similar situation, what did I do that worked for me?
• What is something totally wacky, outrageous, or out-of-the-box that I can do or say to create some momentum?
• What do you know you need to say or do that you haven’t been willing to up to this point?
• What is the truth about this?
• Ask someone else if they see the same truth.
• What are you learning from this issue?
• What would it be like to totally trust that you will get the essence of your desired outcome in the perfect timing?
What are you waiting for?
Inquiries That Lead to Solution - To learn more about this author, visit Jeanna Gabellini's Website.
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Have you ever wanted a cheat sheet that lists the steps you should take to get you to solution regarding any issue? Below I have provided some questions to ask yourself that will help you take the steps to support your desired outcome.
If you are in a very anxious emotional state about what you think is the problem, try to calm yourself first, before going through the inquiries. It is hard to see any solution when you are focused on the problem. It is also easier to access your intuition when you are in a more relaxed state of mind.
I suggest writing down the question, closing your eyes, relaxing, and then let the answer come to you. Next, write down your answer and expand if necessary. It is also powerful if you get a partner to ask the questions aloud to you and let them write down your answer. This way you can stay in the “creative and connected” zone.
These do not have to be done in the order I have written below. Nor do you have to go through all of them. Use your own judgment.
Inquiries:
• What is the real issue here?
• What if there was no issue at all, except for the way I perceive the situation?
• How is the way that I’m thinking about the issue affecting my perception of it?
• If I were to choose to completely let go of all fear, anger, guilt, and insecurity around this situation, what would I see?
• What can I do immediately to feel more empowered?
• What is the most desirable outcome I’d like regarding this issue?
• What would it be like to not be so attached to this outcome?
• How am I trying to control the situation?
• What if I weren’t trying to prove myself right about the pieces of this that cause me stress?
• What can I focus on in my mind to give more energy towards what I do want?
• If I knew I couldn’t fail, no matter what, what is one positive action step I would take?
• Who can assist me with the solution?
• What is an affirmation I can say anytime I get gripped by my negative emotions that will immediately bring me into a higher state of power and connection?
• What is the impact I am making on others involved in this situation?
• Is it the impact that I want to make? If not, what IS the impact that I'm wanting?
• How do I want to be from this moment forward?
• In a past similar situation, what did I do that worked for me?
• What is something totally wacky, outrageous, or out-of-the-box that I can do or say to create some momentum?
• What do you know you need to say or do that you haven’t been willing to up to this point?
• What is the truth about this?
• Ask someone else if they see the same truth.
• What are you learning from this issue?
• What would it be like to totally trust that you will get the essence of your desired outcome in the perfect timing?
What are you waiting for?
Inquiries That Lead to Solution - To learn more about this author, visit Jeanna Gabellini's Website.
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