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A COURTROOM WITH A VIEW
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| Guest post by: Chellie Campbell |
Article Overview: “Oh, no! Just my luck,” I fumed. I was just selected as a juror in a criminal case downtown Los Angeles. Like the jurors described in the LA Times article a few months ago, I was not happy thinking about how this was going to interfere with my work as a small business owner.
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A COURTROOM WITH A VIEW
“Oh, no! Just my luck,” I fumed. I was just selected
as a juror in a criminal case downtown Los
Angeles. Like the jurors described in the LA Times
article a few months ago, I was not happy thinking about how this was going to
interfere with my work as a small business owner.
But there was no help for it – I was trapped.
The next day, I appeared with my fellow jurors, ready to hear the case against
the young man accused of three robberies. But there was a delay. We were kept
waiting outside the courtroom for quite some time when the Court Clerk appeared
and told us that she couldn't tell us anything yet but that "patience was
a virtue". We guessed that settlement talks were going on, and sure
enough, soon afterwards we were invited into the courtroom where the judge
announced that they had come to a resolution in the matter, and we were
dismissed. Yay! Sighs of relief and high-fives all around.
My friend, Patricia Guentzler of NAWBO, who
just happened to be selected for the same jury, and I went outside for a bit to
talk. After a few moments, Elise, the Court Clerk saw us and came over to say
hello. She then told us exactly what had happened: the young man took a plea
bargain of 27 years in prison.
Yikes! I thought, 27 years! That’s a
bargain?? I don't think I'd last 27 days in prison...what had he been facing?
Shetold usthat the young man was
26 years old, had two prior convictions of armed robbery, and conviction on any
one of the three robberies in the current case would have been his third
strike. He was looking at 115 years in prison – a life sentence. The frail
older woman sitting in the courtroom was his mother and dying of cancer with
only six months to live. She didn't want to die knowing her son was going to
spend the remainder of his life in prison with no hope. If he accepted the plea
bargain, she could die in peace knowing that there was hope for him to be
released one day and have a better life. They were both crying.
How unutterably sad, to see this young man
and his mother crying over his wasted life where 27 years in prison was the
best option.
I am not usually sympathetic to criminals. The
day before, when the prospective jurors were questioned, we were asked if we or
anyone we knew had experienced violence, been burglarized, attacked, or
robbed.It was sobering how many people had - nearly everyone raised their
hands. When I was called upon, I recited my litany: "I've had my car
broken into 3 times, stolen once, been burglarized 3 times, been attacked in my
home at 3:00 in the morning, and been robbed at gunpoint in my parking
garage."
While the judge said he was sorry that these
bad things had happened to me, the retired African American gentleman with the
deep chocolate voice sitting next to me leaned over and said, “I’m amazed
you’re not black with all that bad luck!”
I cracked up, and we enjoyed a private giggle over that.
The judge shook his head and commiserated
that those experiences were regrettable, but asked if I could be impartial,
recognizing that the defendant had nothing to do with any of them. “Of course,
your honor,” I replied, “those things happened in the 70s and 80s and I don’t
think he was even born yet!” There was
some laughter at that, and then I said, “I don’t have these experiences
anymore, because I changed my thinking.”
I just had to give a little hint about the Law of Attraction, because I know
the day I took responsibility for my experiences and consciously determined not
to be a victim any more - and I haven’t been since that day. I mean, when you
take your valuables to your sister’s house overnight because your home is being
tented for termites, and she’s
burglarized while you’re out for dinner and your
jewelry is stolen yet again, you have to notice that the common denominator in
all these experiences is you!
No one likes jury duty – we all have busy
lives with a lot to do. It interferes with our plans, costs us time, money, and
inconvenience. I had wanted to be excused – I had an 8-week telecourse coming
up and needed the time to enroll more people in it. Like many small business
owners, jury duty was potentially a big hindrance to my ability to produce
income. I was nervous about being put on a long trial, and I was angry about
this “enforced servitude.” I imagined what I might say that would get me
excused.
I was embarrassed out of that attitude fairly
quickly. I watched as some prospective jurors made it clear that they were
angry to be there and searching rather obviously for the “right answers” to
questions that would result in them being excused. You could see the lie on
their faces. Those who answered truthfully spoke pf them later with scorn.
As I listened and learned throughout the
court proceedings, my attitude shifted. Judge William Sterling honored us for
our service and reminded us to appreciate our great country with its guaranteed
freedoms protected by our laws and trial-by-jury-of-our-peers system. I was
reminded anew of what a wonderful life I have, that I am among the most
fortunate people on the planet. I felt reconnected to my community, beyond just
my family, friends, and business associates. I saw how narrowed my world had
become in my daily life. Here, I opened up to the sea of interconnecting people
from all walks of life, seen and unseen, surrounding and affecting us every
day, with their millions of stories of loss, tragedy, strength, joy, and hope.
I knew that if ever I was on trial, I would
want you to show up for jury service. I would want you to be an honest, thoughtful,
and caring juror. It is through the everyday actions of each citizen that our
freedoms are assured and our way of life preserved. It is up to us.
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About the Author: Chellie Campbell RSS for Chellie's articles - Visit Chellie's website Chellie Campbell is the creator of the popular Financial Stress Reduction® Workshops, and the author of The Wealthy Spirit and Zero to Zillionaire, both published by Sourcebooks, Inc. She is one of Marci Shimoff's “Happy 100” in her current NYT bestseller Happy for No Reason and contributed stories to Jack Canfield’s recent books You’ve Got to Read This Book! and Life Lessons from Chicken Soup for the Soul. She is prominently quoted as a financial expert in The Los Angeles Times, Pink, Good Housekeeping, Lifetime, Essence, Woman’s World and more than 35 popular books. For more information, visit her web site www.Chellie.com or email her at Chellie@Chellie.com. Follow Chellie on Twitter http://twitter.com/ChellieCampbell Click here to visit Chellie's website Spirituality and Making Money by Chellie Campbell 10 Tips to Win in 2010 Be Sure Youre Charging Enough Money The TwelveStep Program for Financial Stressaholics Money Affirmations That Make You Money |
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