How to Dispose of Negative People in 7 simple steps
How to Dispose of Negative People in 7 simple steps
“The Life given to us by nature is short…but the Memory of a Life well spent….is Eternal! (Cesaro, Greek Philosopher)
This gives us a compelling reason to dispose of people we can no longer deal with. They’re toxic, they’re negative, and they are sucking the life out of us. It’s time to let them go. Let’s create a “Life well-spent”, shall we?
Step 1: Be very clear as to what is causing your disdain and final decision to dispose of this person.
Step 2: Consider what’s at stake. What do you have to gain? What do you have to lose? (Your sanity? Your self-worth? Your sense of well-being?)
Step 3: Why now? – Reflect in past tolerance so you won’t do it again, with anyone.
Step 4: By when are you letting this person go from your life?
Step 5: Physical and emotional steps to take to say your final good-byes. In other words, this is what happened, and this is what I’m doing about it! Be intellectually aware and competent in your decision making process to make this a closed chapter in your life. Think of what will happen if you don’t!
Step 6: Who are you listening to? Be sure to buy into your own story and not someone else’s. Be honest, have an alternative plan, have a friend with you…and finally…..close the Door!
Step 7: What have you learned from this experience? The answer will amaze you. The lesson will forever be yours to have, to hold and to apply, as you journey through a “life well spent”.
When you dispose of someone toxic, you allow yourself to create room for someone else who will be good to you and to your business. It's important that the awareness level is raised to the point of how much both aspects of your personal and professional lives are affected.
Make room for the growth of your business to increase the happiness of your personal life!
How to Dispose of Negative People in 7 simple steps - To learn more about this author, visit Ali R. Rodriguez's Website.
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How to dispose of negative people in 7 simple steps
“The Life given to us by nature is short…but the Memory of a Life well spent….is Eternal! (Cesaro, Greek Philosopher)
This gives us a compelling reason to dispose of people we can no longer deal with. They’re toxic, they’re negative, and they are sucking the life out of us. It’s time to let them go. Let’s create a “Life well-spent”, shall we?
Step 1: Be very clear as to what is causing your disdain and final decision to dispose of this person.
Step 2: Consider what’s at stake. What do you have to gain? What do you have to lose? (Your sanity? Your self-worth? Your sense of well-being?)
Step 3: Why now? – Reflect in past tolerance so you won’t do it again, with anyone.
Step 4: By when are you letting this person go from your life?
Step 5: Physical and emotional steps to take to say your final good-byes. In other words, this is what happened, and this is what I’m doing about it! Be intellectually aware and competent in your decision making process to make this a closed chapter in your life. Think of what will happen if you don’t!
Step 6: Who are you listening to? Be sure to buy into your own story and not someone else’s. Be honest, have an alternative plan, have a friend with you…and finally…..close the Door!
Step 7: What have you learned from this experience? The answer will amaze you. The lesson will forever be yours to have, to hold and to apply, as you journey through a “life well spent”.
When you dispose of someone toxic, you allow yourself to create room for someone else who will be good to you and to your business. It's important that the awareness level is raised to the point of how much both aspects of your personal and professional lives are affected.
Make room for the growth of your business to increase the happiness of your personal life!
How to Dispose of Negative People in 7 simple steps - To learn more about this author, visit Ali R. Rodriguez's Website.
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