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Your Greatest Asset
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| Guest post by: Ann Mehl |
Article Overview: One of my clients (we’ll call him George) came to me because he wanted to lose weight. He desperately wanted to lose weight. Over the course of ten years sitting behind a desk, he had gradually packed on an extra fifty pounds which, he painfully admitted, had become an encumbrance. His knees and back bothered him most of the time and he was often winded. With a very demanding work schedule involving a lot of travel, room service, business dinners – there was scarcely any time left for his wife and three children, let alone for self-care. I suggested a shift in his priorities might be in order if he was to be serious about tackling his weight loss goal. “But I don’t have time to exercise!” he protested. It’s a familiar refrain that most working adults can identify with.
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Your Greatest Asset
After looking at some of the reasons why he might like to lose the
weight, he confessed that the real
motivation was that he was afraid he would not be around for his kids as they
got older. Not only that, but he was envious of other dads with greater energy
who, unlike him, were able to chase after their toddlers in the park without
serious risk of a heart attack. At last, we were getting somewhere. Like a lot
of men his mid-life age, George was torn between what he saw as providing for
his family, and being with his family. “I commute 3 hours door-to-door, I work
10 hours a day, where am I gonna get an hour to spend at the gym?” he asked
pointedly.
As a banker,
George understood better than most the principles of saving and investment. I
suggested he think of exercise as time invested
rather than time spent. Why is
it that when someone is working themselves into an early grave (as George
clearly was), we say they are “investing” in the future? But when someone makes
working out a priority, they are “spending” time at the gym? Maybe this is part
of the problem. To George’s way of thinking, hours spent exercising was a
luxury he simply couldn’t afford. I suggested otherwise: it is a down payment
towards his future that he needed to make NOW.
Just as it’s a smart idea to start adding
early to your 401K – even if you don’t
feel you can afford to – so too should you start committing to your future
health, long before you begin to have problems. Because whether it is your body
or your money, failing to contribute early will cost you dearly over the long
haul.
One of my first jobs out of college was
working as a commission-based recruiter. Hungry to build capital, I worked
constantly and made a lot of cash for the firm and for myself, but spent little
time making deposits into my physical well-being bucket. And it showed. It
showed so much that I rarely looked in the mirror as it was too depressing. My
weight was growing nearly as fast as my account balance and I was unhappy with how
I felt. Like George, I had come to believe that the pursuit of health at that
time was an imposition on my already overscheduled, overcommitted life.
Thankfully, I have since learned that maintaining an active lifestyle is not
burdensome – it is liberating. Ask anyone who has suffered a major medical
setback, and they will tell you what wise people already know – that all the
money in the world is of little use without the health to enjoy it.
No matter what your age or fitness level,
it is never too late to begin protecting your assets. Here are some things to
keep in mind as you get started:
Make
it Play
Do you remember what it was like to play
catch or soccer during breaks at school? Even if you were not an athlete, I bet
you found an activity in which you were engaged. Whether it was hanging from
the jungle gym, jumping rope or climbing rocks- chances are, you tried new
things if it looked like fun. Passion trumps excuses. If there isn’t any joy in
your movement, you’re likely not to show up for it (especially as an adult),
because there’s little incentive. And showing up is the first step. Exercise
does not have to be punishing or boring, unless you make it so. I adore hiking.
I also love running and cycling. For you it may be yoga, walking the dog or simply
working in the yard. Whatever it is,
use what you like to do to get and stay in shape. Make a plan around it and be
consistent. Should you cycle this
weekend or do pilates? Access your "getting warmer, getting colder"
signals when experimenting with different ideas. Surf or Kayak? Tennis or Golf?
Choose whatever feels most enticing.
Be a
Believer
Exercise is a bit like a prayer: there’s no
reason to pray if you’re not a believer. Just as you need to have faith before
you can have a meaningful prayer life, you must also believe in the intrinsic
value of health, if you hope to achieve it. When I embark on a weight loss
program with a new client I am coaching, I ask them to remain hopeful in the
face of what they often see as insurmountable odds. See it done. Imagine that
it is possible. Then I remind them of
the importance of paying respect at “church”. Church might be an hour they
devote to the dance studio, the pool or at the track. Wherever your “temple”,
make sure to pay homage three or more times per week, minimum of 30 minutes
each.
Go to Sleep
Statistics show that 70 million Americans (that's almost 25% of the
population) suffer from sleeping disorders and yet, sleep is essential to our
overall health. It is the time when our bodies repair the mental wear-and-tear
we suffer during the day. Our "always-on" culture has created a
sleep-deprived generation. Cell phones, computers, PDAs and 24-hour cable
television keep our brains overstimulated. The result is fatigue, overeating, poor
concentration and, not surprisingly, weight gain. A sound night's sleep keeps
us from feeling grumpy and irritable. It also cuts your risk of heart disease,
high blood pressure, obesity, diabetes and other serious illnesses. Try heading
off to bed an hour earlier or simply turn out the lights and make it possible
to secure 7-8 hours of quality rest.
Eat Small and Often
Our human ancestors probably experienced a balanced correlation
between activity and food consumption. We no longer burn calories running from
dinosaurs, though we often eat like we do. Temptation abounds in our consumer
culture, and no amount of aerobics can compensate for a daily diet of fast
food, snacks and sugary drinks. Yet we do have the power to choose our food
wisely. Shop with a list which includes such items as almonds, oatmeal, fish,
organic eggs, olive oil, brown rice, chicken, yogurt and super grains. Instead
of the old-school “three square meals”, try to eat somewhere between 5 and 6
small meals a day, including fresh fruit and veggies. And always have some
protein on your plate before noon.
Be a Leaf on a Tree
Psychiatrist Dr. Anthony Clare is quoted as saying: “The people who
are best protected against certain physical diseases – cancer, heart disease,
for example – seem to be much more likely to be socially involved. You have to
be both an individual – to have a sense that you are unique and you matter – and you need to be connected to a bigger
organism- a family, a community, a club.” What he’s really saying is this –
don’t isolate. For human beings to be truly healthy, we need to feel like we
are a part of something bigger than just ourselves. A leaf off a tree has the
advantage that it floats wherever it wants, but once it’s disconnected from the
tree, it quickly dies. Research has shown that there is a direct correlation
between our physical condition and social connectedness. Having people around
you who make you feel vibrant and alive can literally add years to your life.
What I said to George – and
I’ll say again here – is if you really want to “provide” for your loved ones,
the best way to do that is to pay attention to your personal wellbeing. It may
feel difficult if you’re a workaholic who wears stress as a badge of honor, but
you are not going to provide much to anybody if you’re otherwise laid up or in
a hospital bed.
We often take the miracle of good health for granted until we lose
it. Show your appreciation for the health that you already have by continually
investing in what is undoubtedly your greatest asset. And the next time someone
asks you where you are going at lunchtime, tell them you’re going to make a
deposit – even if you’re going to the park.
I’ll meet you there.
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About the Author: Ann Mehl RSS for Ann's articles - Visit Ann's website Ann Mehl is a certified Martha Beck coach specializing in life and career transitions. A former executive recruiter, she assists individuals who feel stuck in their lives or simply need a plan to jumpstart their careers. Through one-on-one counseling, Ann guides clients to listen to their authentic selves and focus on their personal growth. As a runner who has completed over forty marathons worldwide, she lives what she preaches. Ann has helped numerous men and women in reaching their personal, professional and athletic goals. She provides a blend of support, empathy, and engagement to address the mental blocks which stand in her clients' way. Ann is disciplined in her approach, and yet flexible enough to respond to individual needs. Ann graduated from Boston College in 1995 and resides in NYC. Click here to visit Ann's website Whose Life Is It Anyway One Man And His Word The Sound of No Hands Clapping Your Greatest Asset Ways to sparkle in tough times |
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