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If you have ever been caught in a situation where it seems like there are no options the reality is that there are always options!
Sometimes people come to a point in their lives where they feel that because of life circumstances and commitment to others, they have no option but to remain in very stressful and insecure circumstances. This is understandable especially when so much is riding on our ability to generate income for our families or so much has been invested into work relationships and career paths.
But the reality is that there is never an absolute "no other way out" scenario. Options always exist. Sometimes we can get so caught up in the situation we are in that the creativity to think of other options is crowded out by the concern for the place we are stuck in. To generate the possibility of more options in a context where we feel like there are no options at all is to take a coaching approach that allows for the opportunity to think beyond one's circumstance.
If you find yourself in such a situation, the following questions can unlock options that you haven't thought of yet:
- Who do you need to talk to in order to explore your options? [this question helps the client realize that there are people in their life that can help them]
- ¨ What do you really want to be doing with your life? [this question causes the client to realize that even if their situation was good they are still not where they want to be]
- ¨ If your income was guaranteed for the next five years while you pursued where you'd like to be, what would your career path look like? [this question takes the fear of losing income from the client's thought process so that they can see possibilities]
- ¨ What does your ideal lifestyle look like? [this question causes the client to look beyond simply their work life to what really matters]
- ¨ What kind of career/work do you need to help support that lifestyle? [this question allows the client to realize what work they need to actually have the life they want]
- ¨ What steps can you take to get to where you want to be? [people need to move toward their goals in increments - this question gets them started down that path toward where they want to be]
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About the Author: Luciano Lombardi RSS for Luciano's articles - Visit Luciano's website I've been a leadership and life coach for the past 4 years and one of the key areas I like to work with people on is change. As a leader and educator for the past 15 years, change is always certain and how we adapt to change will determine whether we are successful or not. Visit my website and sign up for a free coaching session where you can get a taste for what a coach in your corner can do for you and how you can tackle the change that you're facing right now! Click here to visit Luciano's website. Problem Solving the Coaching Way Dealing with Blind Spots Sometimes its one slice at a time Course Correction Sometimes the Emotion doesnt fit the Desire |
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