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Your Soul's Deepest Desires Activate the Law of Attraction

Written by: Carolyn Wilson-Elliott

Article Overview: Sometimes knowing about the Law of Attraction can get you into trouble.

Your Soul's Deepest Desires Activate the Law of Attraction

Sometimes knowing about the Law of Attraction can get you into trouble.You begin to measure yourspiritual growth by what you’re attracting into your life. You know, getting the flu meansyou're harboring less than joyful emotions, lower back pain meansyou have a poor relationship with money, feeling fear meansyou're spiritually lacking.You judge what is coming into your life, and subsequently,you judge your self. But Spirit, in it’s infinite wisdom, is sendingyou exactly whatyou need to attract whatyou truly desire. Here's an example from Belinda Ryan, a Master Spiritual Life Coach:

"While going through a sticky divorce, my lawyer told me I couldn’t sell the house. However, my ex-husband wasn’t paying alimony, my lawyer refused to do any more work until he was paid, and my checking account was overdrawn. I needed the money that selling the house would bring me.

"I felt stuck between a rock and a hard place. ‘Why?’ was a question all too available.

"Realizing my question put me in a ‘victim’ place, I asked myself, ‘What can I do for myself in this moment?’

"I broke away from my upset to take a shower. While calming down under the warm water, I remembered to ask myself some more connecting questions such as ‘What do I really want?’

"My answer shocked me: ‘Well, I really want to stay in the house with my children!’"

Get in Touch with What You Truly Want, Not What You Think You Want The Law of Attraction is always working to bring you whatyou truly want; not whatyouthinkyou want. Belinda learned that the Law of Attraction would make it impossible for her to give up what she truly desired even though logic told her she had to sell her house in order to provide for her children.

The Law of Attraction is activated by your desires (emotions). It doesn’t take into account whatyou perceive as the ‘logical thing to do’ nor does it take into account any judgmentsyou may have about your own desires.

As long asyou remain unconscious about your deeply held emotional desires,you feel helpless and powerless to deal with whatever you’re attracting into your life. Only whenyou have a self-coaching process to bring into conscious awareness your deepest desires canyou begin to feel empowered and consciously activate the Law of Attraction.

The most miraculous aspect of the Law of Attraction is that it doesn’t keep score. For example, once you’ve connected in with your Soul’s Desire and gotten clear about what you want, the Law of Attraction goes to work. You don’t have to clear your account of all the times you unintentionally or unconsciously attracted something else.

To Activate the Law of Attraction, You Must Allow in Your Deepest Desires Allowing is aself-coaching skill that requires specific body, emotion and thought patterns. Once Belinda began to “allow” (stop resisting) her Deepest Desire to stay in the family home even though it appeared financially foolish, the external situation changed immediately.

Belinda’s attorney, who had refused to do any more work for her until he was paid, changed his attitude. He worked to get the back support payments from Belinda’s ex-husband so he could be paid. This also gave Belinda the money she needed to provide for her children.

Over the following months of the divorce proceedings, Belinda realized how much stability she and the children felt because they stayed in the house. If they had moved, Belinda and her children would have had to deal with two major life-changing stresses: moving AND divorce. Staying in the house, a familiar setting, gave them a sense of comfort and security during the major changes that occurred because of the divorce.

Belinda also had a new intention for herself: “I am open to other possibilities so that I can recognize solutions when they arrive instead of remaining blinded by my panic.”

(excerpted from "Spiritual Cross-Training: REAL-izing Your Authentic Power in Today's World)

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