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Compromise or Sacrifice?
Written by: Michael HeahArticle Overview: In your pursuit of business or personal success, what are you willing to compromise or sacrifice? Read this article to appreciate their implications and impact on individuals.
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Compromise or Sacrifice?
If
you are asked to define “compromise” and “sacrifice”, what would you say? Are they the same or different?
Compromise
is about lowering our demands and
expectations on people or the things we want, while sacrifice is about giving up something in order to get
something even bigger. So, which one
gives you greater happiness? Let’s
examine both a bit more.
The
word “compromise” is an interesting concept.
Somewhere along our lives, many of us would have come to believe that
compromise is the only way to keep the peace and stay happy. The paradoxical reality is that compromise
causes frustrations and unhappiness simply because you cannot have your cake
and eat it too! Like someone has said,
“If you limit your choices only to what seem possible or reasonable, you
disconnect yourself from what you truly want and all that is left is a
compromise.”
The
word ‘sacrifice’ is a more empowering word. To me, it is the best and only way
to find peace and happiness. Don’t get me wrong. I’m not advocating sainthood
or martyrdom in your quest to find and live a life of happiness, purpose and
meaning. Really, it is about what you are willing to GIVE UP or sacrifice in
order to have the life you want.”
Ask
those who are successful in life and they can narrate details of sacrifices
they have had to make to achieve their dreams or goals. This is because anyone who is serious about
having something different in his/her life has to be 100% committed. Anything
less is a compromise.
Powerful Questions:
- How often do you have to choose between “compromise” or “sacrifice” as defined above?
- What does it involve?
- What will make you decide if it is important enough to pursue it?
- What action/s will you take?
- What action/s will you not take?
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About the Author: Michael Heah RSS for Michael's articles - Visit Michael's website Dr Michael Heah is the founder and CEO of Corporate Coach Academy and Corporate Coach in Malaysia. He is also an Adjunct Professor for University Utara, Malaysia. He is the first Malaysian to become an International Coach Federation (ICF) Credentialed Professional Certified Coach. He is also a Licensed Coach-Trainer from the International Coach Academy, another world renowned coaching institution. Academically, he is qualified with a Doctorate and Masters in Hospitality & Tourism and a Postgraduate Diploma in Organizational Psychology, from various universities in UK. He founded the ICF Malaysia Chapter to grow a coach community and the Malaysian Association of Certified Coaches (MACC). He is the author of a unique case-study coaching book, Dialogue with a Coach and a regular writer of a corporate coach column in a leading newspaper. He is also a mentor coach for a number of local universities in the field of coaching and tourism education. Michael is also well known outside Malaysia, notably Europe, North America, Canada and Australia. He has consulted for agencies/bodies eg Asia Pacific Economic Cooperation, European Union, PATA, World Tourism Council, Vietnam Tourism Ministry etc. Contact: +603 62054488 Click here to visit Michael's website Perspective Shifts |
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