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No Pain, No Change

Guest post by: Peter Pamela Rose

Article Overview: What do you want in life? Are you willing to work through the “pain of change” to have it instead of looking for the quick fix? Do you want freedom and peace of mind? Peter Pamela Rose, Professional Career and Life Coach, knows it’s all possible.

No Pain, No Change

Most of us want to be the best we can be. But sometimes, as in the subject of the trials that have achieved national attention lately, people will seek what they think is a quick fix to life's challenges. That quick fix can propel us so far away from ourselves and our Truth that being our best isn't even a concern anymore. What do you want in life? Are you willing to work through the "pain of change" to have it instead of looking for the quick fix? Do you want freedom and peace of mind? Peter Pamela Rose, Professional Career and Life Coach, knows it's all possible. If you want a new life you must change the thoughts you've been ruled by in your old life. This is one of the foundations of Peter's Certified Life Coaching practice. Let's say one of your thoughts keeps you from setting boundaries at work. The tape in your head tells you that if you say "no" to extra responsibility, even though it's an unreasonable request, you'll lose your job. So you never say "no" and the work keeps piling up to the point where you think about quitting all the time. If your Executive Coach was Peter Pamela Rose, she'd caution you that what you're afraid of - not having a job - is what you're creating. But you don't have the freedom and peace of mind that comes from setting a boundary and honoring your best self. You must change. Your thoughts, your beliefs, your actions. "Yes," says Peter, "it's painful. You are transcending old self-defeating beliefs and behaviors. This pain is good; it means you are changing for the better." By better she means that you move into Truth, towards your best self and in connection with a Higher Power. And yet, there's a huge upside to the "pain of change". You get gifts. Big ones. Priceless ones.

First, you receive freedom. Freedom from a thought or belief that's been holding you back for years, maybe even your whole life. Second, you receive abundance because you've thrown out the old to make way for the new. But above these incredible gifts you gain something that no amount of money can buy. You gain peace of mind. Peter repeats something she heard from a dear friend, "I am the only one who puts my head on the pillow at night." What he meant was "I alone am the only one who can give myself this extraordinary gift," she explains.

Peace of mind is so very valuable today in our unpredictable world. So whether you need to set boundaries, improve your health, or let go of trappings from the past, the life or career coaching you receive from Peter Pamela Rose prepares you for the challenge of change. It doesn't offer you a temporary, and possibly destructive, quick fix.

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