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I Blame…..
| Guest post by: Linda Sage |
Article Overview: Here I am, sitting at home with the sun streaming through the windows and it is gone 7pm, what would I be doing now if I was in the UK???? Probably grappling with the traffic on the M25, or hunched over reports that had taken over my dining room table as well as my office room, the breeze is warm heralding the coming months of summer, the only blot on the idyllic picture is my green pool!!!! But hey life is not perfect is it??? Or should we be expecting life to give us happiness, and then we can also blame the Government, the neighbours, the children, the economy, our partner for all the things that are wrong in our lives too!! Great cop out,
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I Blame…..
Here I am, sitting at home
with the sun streaming through the windows and it is gone 7pm, what would I be doing now if I was in the UK????
Probably grappling with the traffic on the M25, or hunched over reports that
had taken over my dining room table as well as my office room, the breeze is
warm heralding the coming months of summer, the only blot on the idyllic
picture is my green pool!!!! But hey life is not perfect is it??? Or should we
be expecting life to give us happiness, and then we can also blame the
Government, the neighbours, the children, the economy, our partner for all the
things that are wrong in our lives too!!
Great cop out,
Everyday
we have many opportunities to be thankful for where we are, what we have and
who we have around us, but whilst it is all tickatiboo we take it all for
granted, when the difficulties come along, we feel “why me” and look for other
people or things to blame. Many people
send many hours looking to place blame, if the same energy was being used to
look for solutions to the challenges, things would not look as hard. We are all in the places that we are because
of the choices that we have made and the decision we have taken, so we do
deserve to be exactly where we are, taking responsibility for that and then
choosing to do something about it is a major step forward.
Challenges
to an architect only prove to make him look for more innovative ways of
building, or we could still be in caves, engineers step up to a challenge every
time they build a bridge or tunnel over or under an obstacle, or our journeys
would still be taking many hours more.
Drs are researching new medicines and surgeries to help prolong, save or
enhance our lives, if they had not battled science then we would still be
amputating with axes and pulling teeth with pliers.. Technology has opened a
new world for many people and most people now are more used to jumping on and
off of planes rather than buses.
So,
why do we still expect others to be able to find happiness for us? And love us
when we don’t love our self? Acceptance of the person we are makes life so much
easier. And offers each of us a good place to start any relationship, and
building block to face changes and challenges, these are the things that make
us grow as people, finding hidden strengths and depths that we would never look
for if life was smooth everyday.. Ten
years ago how many of us thought we would be talking into a mobile phone
smaller than the palm of your hand, or having free conversation via computers
anywhere in the world, shopping or banking without moving off of the sofa, all
of these have been challenges that we have learnt to cope with, so why are
others any more scary?
No
taking things, people or time for granted, but enjoying them all along with the
challenges that comes with them, helps all of us see the best in the world
around us and gives us more confidence in our own ablilities to cope with them
as well. Looking back over life it is easy to say “I wish I had” or “I could
have”, try and rise to each challenge and look at the positive things that you
can learn along the way. Then there are no regrets, no blame just self
knowledge and self worth.
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About the Author: Linda Sage RSS for Linda's articles - Visit Linda's website My background is in Forensic Psychology over the past 25 years I have been mentoring,teaching and lecturing the whole range of skills and abilities from Corporate to schools. I have built my own successful MLM Business, now I am mentoring and coaching on stategies for the improvement of yourself and business. Health, nutrition, fitness and life style to enhance your quality of life. I have helped thousands of people improve themself psychologically, their bodies, relationships, financial standing and lifestyle. I write weekly columns for local papers and magazines, have worked with local radio and television programmes. I am President of Mil Palmeras Toastmasters International. I also speak publically on motivation and weight loss, how these affect entrepreneurs and limit them. Online marketing and Newbie Training is the newest area of my business, many people suffer a lot on the internet, I know I did, so now I help people see that it is not as scary as they think and definately does not have to be as expensive. Time Management and self discpline are major areas for entrepreneursas the time just seems to run away. I live on the Costa Blanca in Spain, this was one of my first goals, now I have orange and lemon trees in my garden, my passion is to set bigger goals for myself and help others do the same. Life is amazing and it should be. I have a new ebook Personal Coaching for Change which is a very proactive book, in each chapter you can build on changing things in your life. Easy to read and follow. Click here to visit Linda's website   How Good do You Feel Time and Tide Waits for no Man or Woman Looking for Love Eat Drink Be Merry Food Pleasure or Pain |
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