The Choices of Lif
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Just as you start to think that your life is progressing nicely and going smoothly along a certain path, a big rock jumps up into the road and knocks the wheels right out from under you., but as Nelson Mandela said “it is not how many times you fall down that counts, it is the times that you get back up again that are important”; so here I go again along my merry way.
Many people come into our lives some only touch it, others make an impression and others stay there for a life time, but we learn something from all of them, and hopefully they gain something by our presence in their lives too. Even with people that we feel have hurt us and treated us badly there are things that we learn about ourselves. Creating change in our own life often has a knock on effect on others, they may not want or choose to change, so then we have to decide what is best for us.
Recently I have made changes in my working environment which then involved change for others, some embraced it and are as excited about the future as I am, others had more problems seeing how this change could enhance their future and made their choices accordingly, sticking to what you know is safe but it is also limiting. How many of the inventions that we now accept in our daily lives meant change at the time that they were invented? Not that long ago, mobile phones were the size of a house brick and everybody carried money in their bags or wallets, because using plastic was strange and unknown. Internet access was something that was in an episode of Star Trek, but people with vision saw what most people took years to catch up with, now most of us cannot imagine life without the changes that they brought about.
Change, also brings new people into our lives and the cycle goes on…… Hind sight is very good we can all look back and think of the things that we could have changed, but then we would not have learnt the lessons that we have learnt or had the experiences that we have had, so maybe it was not such a bad thing to go through, after all. There is one thing for sure though, however long we look back and ponder, we cannot change a single thing. All the time that we are looking back we are not looking forward, and the future is something we can change or make as we want it, by planning and setting goals.
Most people are constantly thinking about the things that are not right in their lives, what they don’t have and what is missing, so the more you concentrate on them the less time you have to know what you really want and make your plans to get them. Every morning we wake up with a clean slate of what we can do and make of that day, the choices we make and the actions we do, can lead us towards or away from our own goals. If we sit back and let others make choices for us and give up the responsibility of our own future, why are we surprised when things are not the way we want them to be?
If we are lucky enough to have a tomorrow, why let it be like all our yesterdays? It could be the first day of our future instead…..the choice is ours, what will it be???
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About the Author: Linda Sage RSS for Linda's articles - Visit Linda's website My background is in Forensic Psychology over the past 25 years I have been mentoring,teaching and lecturing the whole range of skills and abilities from Corporate to schools. I have built my own successful MLM Business, now I am mentoring and coaching on stategies for the improvement of yourself and business. Health, nutrition, fitness and life style to enhance your quality of life. I have helped thousands of people improve themself psychologically, their bodies, relationships, financial standing and lifestyle. I write weekly columns for local papers and magazines, have worked with local radio and television programmes. I am President of Mil Palmeras Toastmasters International. I also speak publically on motivation and weight loss, how these affect entrepreneurs and limit them. Online marketing and Newbie Training is the newest area of my business, many people suffer a lot on the internet, I know I did, so now I help people see that it is not as scary as they think and definately does not have to be as expensive. Time Management and self discpline are major areas for entrepreneursas the time just seems to run away. I live on the Costa Blanca in Spain, this was one of my first goals, now I have orange and lemon trees in my garden, my passion is to set bigger goals for myself and help others do the same. Life is amazing and it should be. I have a new ebook Personal Coaching for Change which is a very proactive book, in each chapter you can build on changing things in your life. Easy to read and follow. Click here to visit Linda's website. Nobodys Perfect Life is a Rollercoaster Im Looking for a Hero How many decisions do you make a day How Good do You Feel |
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