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| Guest post by: Linda Sage |
Article Overview: We are often told we need the sad, or down side of life to grow as a person and develop our inner strength to appreciate the good times, but some people seem to be “luckier” than others!
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You Can’t Buy Experience
We are often
told we need the sad, or down side of life to grow as a person and develop our
inner strength to appreciate the good times, but some people seem to be
“luckier” than others!
Or, maybe it
is how we look at luck! In the past two
weeks my daughter has left fulltime education in the UK, become a bad tempered brat, my
dad sadly died and my insurance company has condemned my house, how unlucky am I….
In fact for
the first time in my life, for a very long time I feel secure, supported and in
control of my life. I have become surrounded by people I trust and can talk
to. Where as, two years ago when my
partner left me and my mum died I turned into a clammed up hermit. The barriers I put up to keep out pain, also
kept out joy.
Learning to
bring down the barriers and let people know us a people is envigorating, making
new friends at any age seems hard, but learning just to talk makes such a huge
change in your life.
Most of us a
afraid of failure, ridicule or rejection as we have all passed through these
sometime in our lives, but whether we accept the valuations of these comments
is up to us. Being accepting of
ourselves (warts n all), and listening to others and their needs brings a great
deal of joy. Happiness or unhappiness is
an internal choice, sadness comes and goes, but how we deal with it matters and
that makes the difference on the lasting effects it has on us.
When the
depths of despair seem the only comfortable place to be, look for the tiny
shred of light, it is always there but we are often afraid to reach for it,
when we do the warmth and comfort it brings is soul enhancing. It may come in
the form or a letter, phone call, photograph, music or friend, but when you
look it is there.
Article Tags: afraid of failure, good times, inner strength, learning, secure, self confidence, supported
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About the Author: Linda Sage RSS for Linda's articles - Visit Linda's website My background is in Forensic Psychology over the past 25 years I have been mentoring,teaching and lecturing the whole range of skills and abilities from Corporate to schools. I have built my own successful MLM Business, now I am mentoring and coaching on stategies for the improvement of yourself and business. Health, nutrition, fitness and life style to enhance your quality of life. I have helped thousands of people improve themself psychologically, their bodies, relationships, financial standing and lifestyle. I write weekly columns for local papers and magazines, have worked with local radio and television programmes. I am President of Mil Palmeras Toastmasters International. I also speak publically on motivation and weight loss, how these affect entrepreneurs and limit them. Online marketing and Newbie Training is the newest area of my business, many people suffer a lot on the internet, I know I did, so now I help people see that it is not as scary as they think and definately does not have to be as expensive. Time Management and self discpline are major areas for entrepreneursas the time just seems to run away. I live on the Costa Blanca in Spain, this was one of my first goals, now I have orange and lemon trees in my garden, my passion is to set bigger goals for myself and help others do the same. Life is amazing and it should be. I have a new ebook Personal Coaching for Change which is a very proactive book, in each chapter you can build on changing things in your life. Easy to read and follow. Click here to visit Linda's website All in the Minds Eye Formula for Success Dust off Your Goals Air Your Dreams Smile and the Whole World Smiles with You Cry and You Cry Alone To Dream the Impossible Dream |
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