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High Self-Esteem Isn't Always Healthy?

Written by: Donald J. Trump

Article Overview: Personally, I’ve never had a problem with self-esteem. I always say that you have to believe in yourself or no one else will.

High Self-Esteem Isn't Always Healthy?

Personally, I’ve never had a problem with self-esteem. I always say that you have to believe in yourself or no one else will.

Now a new study has come out suggesting that high self-esteem isn’t necessarily healthy. The researchers, who of course are psychologists, say that sometimes people who are overly confident and proud of themselves can lash out at other people and believe that everyone else is wrong except them.

They concluded that there was “good” high self-esteem and “bad” high self-esteem. With the good people well-grounded and the bad ones too aggressive and defensive.

That doesn’t make a whole lot of sense to me. I say that if you are confident in yourself and what you do, that’ll be reflected in your work and in how you treat people. I’ve always been one to say that you have to blow your own horn and let people know about your accomplishments. But rarely should that be at the expense of others - other than your worst competitors.

So keep your self-esteem high and there’s no need to have your ego in check as long as you can back up that confidence with success.

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Article Tags: confidence, ego, own horn, psychologists, self esteem, selfesteem, whole lot



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