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THe Essential Gift to Give others for your own Success

Written by: David Gant

Article Overview: This is going to be fairly short and sweet and will serve to stimulate your positive and negative thought patterns. Some of this will be intentionally negative, however do not be alarmed it has been included in the mix to provoke a positive reaction and response an give that notion that we should be giving to receive.

THe Essential Gift to Give others for your own Success

As the recession bites we see more and more people in a

place of despair especially when society has taught them

to place all their eggs in one basket, relying on that one

job that they have invested in so heavily, in time, training

and in some cases hard earned cash with student loans

needing to be repaid as result of further education fees,

university, collage or local night school etc.

What a demoralizing way to start out into the working

environment. Nevertheless, that is how we are

programmed right.

Enter the recession! Huge amounts of people over th

last two years have advanced through life only to be

pushed back down; facing the adversity they have

always dreaded facing. That is an uncertain future,

through becoming a casualty of cutbacks and down

sizing, through the inability of their employer to provide

a stable working environment... Alas, it is too much fo

some people with disastrous consequences - some

paying the ultimate price.

At the very least, many have lost their ability to provide

for their family and themselves.

Paints a gloomy picture I know - hang in there though

this is going somewhere good - we have to cover th

pain before we get the gain. (Oh man who said we

have to do that).

What does all this mean? The positive out look that

was once present has been knocked back to be

replaced with the self defeatism of the negative thought,

with no glimmer of light at the end of the tunnel and the

word hope completely lost in their vocabulary and

thought process.

Then enter the word justify, which comes into play. They

must have a reason as to why things have deteriorated

the way it has and the acceptance of why they cannot

and will not have the things they have always wanted.

Paints a terrible picture doesn't it? So now you have

digested this, I hope that it is stimulating your mind in the

ways of turning those negative situations and thoughts

into a positive solution.

Ok David were are all ears! So what is the answer?

First let's ask ourselves a couple of leading questions?

What is it, that almost everyone is looking for?

But more to the point what is it you must provide in

order to rekindle their self worth and self-respect?

And pull them back from the brink - give them back

that warm glow so to speak.

Your job as the leader in your Online Business is to

provide hope - people are looking for the reassurance

that there is hope in the turmoil of their world and that

you have the answer to their prayers. They are looking

for a sign - a leader- That is you.

When you give this essential gift of Hope,you are

putting in place another skill - that of attraction marketing

where you are letting them know that you are worth

listening to and attracting the serious entreprenuer to you.

That's right - they are looking for the reassurance that

there is a light at the end of their tunnel making the word

hope a friendly and sort after result in their vocabulary

once again.

Give a person hope and you restore his faith, desire and

drive to take the action required to go forth and become

a resounding success. Giving them back the will to change

their world?

Now we know the human mind is amazing. The brain is the

most powerful CPU on this planet being able to process

billions of computations and outstrip the fastest most

powerful super computer. Being fed by millions of sensors

each contributing a specific input that builds the complete

picture of our world and then goes a stage further in being

able to think and react in a completely independent and

unique way.

The brain has the power to adapt to the information it is

being fed. The ability to select an irrational and illogical

solution as well as the rational logical one.

That's where hope comes in. From the very start ours

brains are programmed. It comprehends the inputs and

subsequent out put to enable mobility to be able to

interpret sight smell touch hearing and react and respond

intelligently. Learning from both wisdom and experience.

That's right we can control the information that is being

fed to our mind and subsequently control the stimulus that

provides the right environment for success.

Feed the right information Positive information and let

the mind focus on what can be achieved - provide the solution.

It's interesting when you consider this statement.

The rich get richer and the poor gets poorer. Why is that?

The simple answer being that the rich continue to do those

things that make them rich and the poor continue to do the

things that keep them poor. People develop habits. Now to

develop a habit and even better a success habit means you

need to repeat a process for 21 days to ingrain that activity

into your brain.

So you can give two people the same thing and get two

completely different results.

So this is our task in our business not to sell our product but

to gain the trust and confidence of those we are looking to

help by giving them hope. To nurture and cultivate the

positive ness within them. Showing them that there is a way

out of the world they are in - getting them above the quagmire

of their self-pity.

Give them self worth rekindle the desire and by helping that

person you to will succeed beyond your wildest dreams.

Take the focus off of selling your product and make it about it

about them and how you can help them with emphasis on

finding the solution. Solving their problems or challenges. Giving

them hope providing them with a leader that will guide them to

their solution.

My own view is this there are never any problems only a

challenge to be overcome.

Get that positive mindset and make a point to go out and help

just one more person achieve in life what it is they are striving for.

In doing so and by giving hope you will achieve your goals

It is essential that your mindset is one which focuses on what you

can achieve and is positive all the time. Grab your armour put on

your rhino skin and help your client with their solution at the same

time ensure you give that essential ingrediant HOPE.

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