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HOW TO ACHIEVE EVERYTHING YOU DESIRE IN LIFE
Written by: mel koonerArticle Overview: Want to run a succesful home based business?Then you need the correct mindset. Eliminate your fears and keep a postive attitude. A home based business can allow you the freedom to be with your family.The time to do other fulfilling tasks
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HOW TO ACHIEVE EVERYTHING YOU DESIRE IN LIFE
First, get to know yourself better. A serious look at
your life is essential to get what you want. If you need to travel to
Ireland by Monday, you'll have to know where you are starting from.
A self-appraisal may take you a few weeks to fully complete. How well do you know yourself? How much time and effort do you put in to each aspect in your life? How much knowledge do you have about the things around you?
What are the good points about you? What are your successes and failures? Keep in mind that you are not on a fault-finding mission but a fact-finding one. It does not matter whether your strengths match evenly with your weaknesses. It does not matter on paper. The important thing is you need a written record of who and what you are, which needs to written in full detail. This document will be used as a base for improvement.
Great and successful people in every field start with an in depth analysis and revise it regularly to chart their progress.
Second, make a report based on your self-appraisal record, all the things that you thought you were incapable of doing but you managed to do. THIS IS VITAL as it will provide you with inspiration when you are faced with a problem you may think you cannot overcome. This report is not only your real-life success stories but are success stories of positive proof that there is more in you than you ever thought there to be.
These experiences are the ones that you will use to power the obstacles that come your way in the future. Make sure you have this report in writing and keep it with your personal analysis also make a copy in case you loose it.This will be a vital document in times to come.
Third, decide exactly what you want in life. Most people fail and never set goals . If they do then they never pursue their goals or make any attempt to strive towards them. All the steps outlined here are vital to a truly successful, fulfilling life.
When you set yourself goals make them achievable and much stronger than you have ever done before. Set them so that the give you a challenge and aren't just easily obtainable, otherwise you will breeze through life bored and unchallenged. Set goals for each day,week,month,year.two years,five years and so on.
Be precise and definite about what you really want. Write down your goals in all the possible detail. Make them firm... for the moment.
As you move on you will find that your goals will change. Don't change them unless you have achieved the ones that are important to you.
Set as many goals as possible make sure to include what you would like to be doing, where you would like to be living, what you would want for your family,what kind of person do you want to be,what you would like to be earning, your health, your personality, your education,knowledge and spiritual growth. Work towards your goals, and do activities that will help you to accomplish them. Remember, if you make a mistake it can be rectified but doing nothing will get you nowhere.
I guess this next step takes real effort and is the hardest of all.
Fourth is commitment. Please make the decision to achieve your goals, strive for the things you desire which will make you and your life so much better. Make the commitment from within, from your heart and not just from your lips. It may a little time for you to really feel that commitment. By regularly reviewing your goals that you have written down will make it possible for your commitment to feel real. You will go through agony and hardship at first and may wonder if this is really worth pursuing, most people give up, remember determination and will power are always the winners.
Well, all change comes with pain. It hurts to be born,to fall in love, to pass an exam, to run the marathon. Look for the success and glory on the other side and your pain will ease. DO NOT GIVE UP.
A self-appraisal may take you a few weeks to fully complete. How well do you know yourself? How much time and effort do you put in to each aspect in your life? How much knowledge do you have about the things around you?
What are the good points about you? What are your successes and failures? Keep in mind that you are not on a fault-finding mission but a fact-finding one. It does not matter whether your strengths match evenly with your weaknesses. It does not matter on paper. The important thing is you need a written record of who and what you are, which needs to written in full detail. This document will be used as a base for improvement.
Great and successful people in every field start with an in depth analysis and revise it regularly to chart their progress.
Second, make a report based on your self-appraisal record, all the things that you thought you were incapable of doing but you managed to do. THIS IS VITAL as it will provide you with inspiration when you are faced with a problem you may think you cannot overcome. This report is not only your real-life success stories but are success stories of positive proof that there is more in you than you ever thought there to be.
These experiences are the ones that you will use to power the obstacles that come your way in the future. Make sure you have this report in writing and keep it with your personal analysis also make a copy in case you loose it.This will be a vital document in times to come.
Third, decide exactly what you want in life. Most people fail and never set goals . If they do then they never pursue their goals or make any attempt to strive towards them. All the steps outlined here are vital to a truly successful, fulfilling life.
When you set yourself goals make them achievable and much stronger than you have ever done before. Set them so that the give you a challenge and aren't just easily obtainable, otherwise you will breeze through life bored and unchallenged. Set goals for each day,week,month,year.two years,five years and so on.
Be precise and definite about what you really want. Write down your goals in all the possible detail. Make them firm... for the moment.
As you move on you will find that your goals will change. Don't change them unless you have achieved the ones that are important to you.
Set as many goals as possible make sure to include what you would like to be doing, where you would like to be living, what you would want for your family,what kind of person do you want to be,what you would like to be earning, your health, your personality, your education,knowledge and spiritual growth. Work towards your goals, and do activities that will help you to accomplish them. Remember, if you make a mistake it can be rectified but doing nothing will get you nowhere.
I guess this next step takes real effort and is the hardest of all.
Fourth is commitment. Please make the decision to achieve your goals, strive for the things you desire which will make you and your life so much better. Make the commitment from within, from your heart and not just from your lips. It may a little time for you to really feel that commitment. By regularly reviewing your goals that you have written down will make it possible for your commitment to feel real. You will go through agony and hardship at first and may wonder if this is really worth pursuing, most people give up, remember determination and will power are always the winners.
Well, all change comes with pain. It hurts to be born,to fall in love, to pass an exam, to run the marathon. Look for the success and glory on the other side and your pain will ease. DO NOT GIVE UP.
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Re: Old and Forgotten....
- Sorry for the oversight.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY - BARBARA, LONG LIFE AND PROSPERITY!
Re: Is it better to become an entrepreneur at an early age?
- I think the best time to become an entrepreneur is not about your age, but your LIFE STAGE.
In my opinion, it's ideal to start by your business before you have a spouse/kids/family and mortgage and just after you've worked a few years to save up some capital/work experience (which is easiest to do while still living at home with your parents. No shame in being able to save $1000-2000+ each month).
Re: Old and Forgotten....
- [quote="topeyinka":1k77iu30]Sorry for the oversight.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY - BARBARA, LONG LIFE AND PROSPERITY![/quote:1k77iu30]
Thanks very much, Topeyinka!
But I was really just joking - I know no one here could have known my birthdate! !
I was just wondering if an automated "Birthday greeting" sent from the forums would be a good idea...
Re: The secret to happiness
- Hey GT
You have a great attitude.
I was a 4 pack a day smoker and I stopped about 8 years ago. Nobody thought it possible that Barry Sarner could ever stop smoking. It turned out to be the biggest lesson I ever learned in MY LIFE.
The lesson: How could you fail at anything if you just refuse to give up?
I slipped and slided for 8 months but even when I messed up, and I did alot, I never threw myself under the bus. I just started all over again the next day.
I CHOSE to start again the next day . . . I CHOSE
You must work on it every day of your life. Just know that you have the choice to start from scratch the next day. . . . . AND THAT IS OK TO DO.
NEVER NEVER NEVER GIVE UP
Re: Going Back to Work after After Having Kids
- Hi Ladies,
You're having an interesting discussion here. I've been married for 16 years and I don't have kids... yet. People do have many different perspectives on me being a childless career woman. Fortunately, I stopped listening to them a long time ago. I just joke and say my cats are my pseudochildren for now.
I actually believe every one of us women have "mothering" gifts, but that doesn't mean we need to use them only to mother our own children. In fact, I think it's sad when women feel they have to give up everything in order to have kids. (If they DESIRE to, that's a different story.) They feel guilty when their own desire to "mother others in the world" tends to rise to the surface. Their kids are no less important just because their desire to make a difference in the world goes beyond the family.
Jude, I like that you said about how going to work makes you happy. That's because you've chosen to do what you enjoy. If a Mom does what she enjoys, she will bring more life into her house. You can actually inspire your child by living fully alive.
I wrote an article with that title... "Hey Mom, inspire your child by living fully alive." As long as this forum will accept it, I'll upload it on the site here along with another one called, "You are a great Mother (even if you don't have kids)!"
I have clients who have kids and clients who don't. I find that when someone says to me that I don't understand her situation because I don't have kids, she actually means she isn't ready to look at what she can do to change her situation. I'm just the scapegoat.
There are many women who have learned how to balance their families and their careers with great success. Thank you to those Moms for setting a great example for the rest of us!
Warmly,
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