Attracting A Mentor
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How to Attract a Mentor
Some Background Information
The ancient Greeks were among the first to use mentoring as a tool for developing talent. Greek mythology provides us with much information on mentoring practices. During the Trojan Wars, Odysseus left his son Telemachus with his friend Mentor who would teach and guide his son in his absence.
The first recorded modern usage of the term can be traced to a book entitled "Les Aventures de Telemaque", by the French writer , published in 1699. In the book the lead character is that of Mentor. This book was very popular during the 18th century and the modern application of the term can be traced to this publication. programs" in which newcomers are paired with more experienced people, who advise them and serve as examples as they advance. Schools sometimes offer mentoring programs to new students, or students having difficulties.
Mentor: a trusted friend, counselor or teacher, usually a more experienced person. Some professions have "
Today mentors provide expertise to less experienced individuals to help them advance their careers, enhance their education, and build their networks. In many different arenas people have benefited from being part of a mentoring relationship. An example in the movies is Star Wars -
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Formal Mentoring
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Informal Mentoring
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Defined length of time
Specifically designed Established goals, clarified and shared Tied to Competences Professional skills development Organizational driven Structured training |
Undefined length of time (sometimes years)
Occurs by chance Goals and needs determined by individual No accountability Personal development Personal chemistry Training identified |
2. Determine the type of mentoring - Strategic Mentoring versus Tactical Mentoring
Strategic- thinking, planning, and actions which reflect the individuals' ability to consider the big picture, recognize patterns and trends, honor priorities, anticipate issues, predict outcomes, and have smart alternatives to fall back upon. Strategic issues deal with overriding mission and purpose, why the organization exists, how it makes a difference that others don't or can't make, and where it will be in the future.
Tactical- refers to the hands-on part of getting the job done, making sure the strategic goals are met. It's performing each implementation task with quality and efficiency.
Note that both are very important.
3. Determine how a mentor can help? One of the most valuable things a mentor can do is help you take an honest look at yourself related to strategy and tactics. Don't wait for the ideal mentor. Instead pull key learnings from several.)Suggestions
- Identify your goals
- Talk with your supervisor about your development needs
- Identify formal leadership programs to which to apply
- Identify specifically what you seek to learn from a mentor
- Excel at what you do
- Be identified as competent and trustworthy
- Be Visible
- Help others
- Network with others
- Learn to take risks
- Introduce yourself to new people within the organization
- Be prepared to accept feedback
- Publicize Your Achievements
- Write a letter to a friend or family member about what you have accomplished in one year
- Take pictures to capture the moment and feeling
- Use Political Savvy
- Choose well - research the reputation of the Mentor
- Be perceived as an ethical team player
- Think strategically about how you will reach your goals
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About the Author: Dia Sutton RSS for Dia's articles - Visit Dia's website Dianne Floyd Sutton is President of Sutton Enterprises, author, trainer, educator, expert witness, coach and actor. She has over twenty years of combined experience in Human Resource Development (HRD) processes, Diversity, Equal Employment Opportunity (EEO), and Communication training. Sutton Enterprises (SE) is a full service human resource development organization which offers a variety of Human Resource Development (HRD)services, i.e. training, keynotes, facilitations, EEO interventions, organizational development, etc. For more information about SE go to www.suttonenterprises.org Dianne Sutton has the skills to create a safe learning environment where diverse participants are able to ask questions, experiment with new behaviors and development new skills. She also has the ability to present models and techniques in a straight forward, clear and humorous manner. She started her career as a mathematics instructor in the St. Louis, Missouri Public School System while attending graduate school at Washington University. Before founding Sutton Enterprises in 1987, she held a variety of positions at the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) and the U.S. Department of Agriculture (USDA) in training and employee development. Her most recent publication is Workplace Etiquette: A Guide to Thriving and Surviving in Today’s Workplace. In 2010 Dianne was awarded the Spencer Logan Leadership Award from the Training Officers Consortium (TOC) in Washington, DC. This is the organization's highest honor. For more information go to www.trainingofficers.org Dianne is on a civility crusade as Ms. Etiquette. Ms. Etiquette offers a down-to-earth, in-depth presentation peppered with real life examples and appropriate humor. She demystifies the rules and gives insights into behaviors that increase respect, collaboration and trust in the workplace. Check out Ask Ms. Etiquette for answers to questions about appropriate etiquette in the workplace at www.suttonenterprises.org Click here to visit Dia's website. Your Email Manners On the Job Shout Out to the Disabled Overcoming Ableism Cubical Etiquette Disability Etiquette 2 Visual Impairment TECHNOLOGY ETIQUETTE |
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