The Roles We Play at Work

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Have you ever acted like a bonehead. - By Deborah Kimmett

To paraphrase Shakespeare “Work is but a stage and we are merely players.”

In my case this is not just a metaphor. I am in the theatre business so this story

involves an actress called Elizabeth Ashby. Many years ago she won the lead role in the Broadway play, Tennessee Williams, Cat on A Hot Tin Roof. She played the love-starved Maggie who moved through life like a hungry cat. To prepare herself for the role Ashby went to the streets of New York City to study alley cats behaviours. She imitated the way they moved; they way they pounced when confronted and her belief in this won her a coveted Tony award.

During one of the matinee performances she was in top feline form when she heard a whining sound coming the audience. It sounded like someone crying and try as she might to ignore it, she had to stop her performance, walk to the edge of the stage and ask the perpetrator to be quiet.

At that point a blind man stood up with his Seeing Eye dog and slowly walked down the aisle to the Exit sign. She was mortified. The audience booed her and for the next hour she tried to solider on through the rest of her performance.

When people boo you on stage, now that’s a hard day at the office.

The story would have ended as one of her worse workdays ever, but when she got backstage the man and the dog were waiting for her. He was profusely apologetic saying he had taken the dog to umpteen performances and the animal had never ever made a sound. The only time he whimpered like that was when he saw… a cat.

Ashby practiced acting like a cat and even though she wasn’t, the dog didn’t see the difference.

I know what you’re thinking. You’re not an actress. You don’t go around acting like a cat? Or do you?

We start to play roles early on in our work-life and then get stuck in them for years.

Think about what role you play over and over again at work. Are you the one who believes you are hard done by? Are you the one who rises above? Or are you whimpering like the dog whenever a person posing as a cat walks by?

You may say, “ But everybody makes me act like this” however a good way to gauge things is look over your history and see what role you’ve chosen to play each time you are in a new situation. Then the question becomes do you like the role you’ve been cast in. Are you choosing this role?

Changing the lines we tell ourselves is challenging. Rehearsal is needed. Most theatre productions they practice every day for six weeks. So it is with changing the way you you do your role. It takes practice.

As for Ashby when that role ended she went on to star in many other roles. As for the dog he didn’t stop whimpering. He was taken to many other Broadway shows except for the musical, Cats.

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This funny woman is every H.R's manager's dream. She knows that human beings are what makes for good business. For 25 years, she was associated with the famous Second City as an actor, teacher, and mentor. She was one of the four architects of their Corporate Training Program and then in 2001 formed her own company Wit With Widsom. She is a brilliant and hilarious communicator who does keynotes, workshops and interactive seminars. For a small team building session or as a way to kick off your next big corporate event Deborah can be funny then motivational then act as your emcee. She is a dream come true for any event planner. Ms Kimmett has trained thousands of business people to deal with Change, Communcation, and Creativity. You will learn how to stay flexible, networking skills and how to take risks in the moment. Ms Kimmett appears regularly on CBC television at the Winnipeg Comedy Festival and is a veteran of The Debaters, for CBC Radio One. She is an author of eight plays and the book Reality is Over Reality.
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