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Driving on Empty

Written by: Sylvia Lafair

Article Overview: It seems like with the economy in the tank, we’re keeping what used to be our 'status symbol' cars, much longer. One is for economic reasons and secondly, our values of what’s important as been edited. We no longer want to drive on empty, we want a full tank of satisfaction; read on the see what key executives want for a full tank.

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Driving on Empty

So much has been said lately about cars. There is the down slide of GM and Chrysler. We have all witnessed the end of an era. Then there is cash for clunkers. I must admit I don't really know anyone who had a clunker, most I know drive shiny prestige named autos.

What I do know is that our romance with cars is changing. I also know that with the economy still in a tentative place most business people I speak with are keeping their cars longer and are less focused on trading up. It seems cars are no longer the status symbol of success. And gas guzzlers are no longer socially correct. What we covet is taking us down a new road.

So, what are the new conversations business executives and organizational leaders are having today? Not so much about the "stuff" that once showed the value of a man or woman. Entrepreneurs, senior corporate leaders, government officials are finally putting priorities in a more real place. Discussions are becoming more open, more honest, and more real. We are finally looking at the fruits of our labors and asking if we have bought into a pattern from the past about how and what makes life livable.

No matter what kind of car, most of us have, in effect, been driving on empty. We have been running fast and furious without taking time to ask ourselves the questions about what really matters.

Here are some thoughts to ponder in the few minutes when you take a breather from making a living to think about making a life:

Learning how you can balance your work life with your family as well as your personal delights, is the work of 21st century entrepreneurs and executives. We are truly learning that no matter how much you fill the tank of material goods you inevitably end up driving on empty.

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Developing leaders and transforming teams is my speciality. As a clinical psychologist I know that we bring the behaviors we learned in our original organization, the family, into our present work organization. The key to leadership is understanding how individuals form a system and how that system impacts the bottom line. I have worked globally and find that the core of relationships is much the same whether in California, China,or Chile. My book "Don't Bring It to Work (Jossey Bass) offers tools and strategies for developing collaborative work cultures and important core techniques for entrepreneurs to have motivated and fast moving teams. I am a speaker at national conferences, radio, and television. You can follow my blogs at  http://www.sylvialafair.com/blog/ . You may contact Sylvia Lafair, PhD, author of "Don't Bring It to Work" directly at, sylvia@ceoptions.com or 570-636-3858 for any questions or feedback you may have.

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