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The world we share
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| Guest post by: Ian Berry |
Article Overview: We live in three worlds; the world in here, the world out there, and the world we share. In here our views are just that, out there are other people’s views. In the world we share are the views we agree on. In any successful relationship the world we share is the critical one. I trust that today and every day you will resolve to build more of the world we share and be less precious about the world in here or the world out there.
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The world we share
© Ian Berry All rights reserved
As far back as 2003 authors Kouzes
and Posner said Collaboration has become the master skill of this
age. Our ability to work together will determine mutual failure or
mutual success.
How skilled are you?
Very few of our political leaders
have the skill.
I find politics fascinating from
the perspective of how not to be in the modern world. Almost everything
the government says, the opposition fights and vice versa. How
incredible that in the age of collaboration, we have to have an
opposition!
I listen to parliament in Australia
occasionally and did so recently during debate about climate change and
other big issues. The most basic of actions required to have high
value relationships of mutual reward were being ignored by these highly
paid so called representatives of ours.
We live in three worlds;
the world in here, the world out there, and the world we share. In here
our views are just that, out there are other people’s views. In the
world we share are the views we agree on. In any successful relationship
the world we share is the critical one.
Human conflict is fundamentally the
result of firstly, failure to agree on the goal, and secondly, failure
to agree on the strategies to achieve the goal. This second one often
causes all the trouble for our parliamentarians. It seemed they all had
the same goal; a more harmonious country, a more civil universe for all.
But do you think they could agree on the strategies to achieve theses
most noble of purposes? Not on your life. Every speaker I heard was only
interested in the world in here.
I guarantee that today all of our
troubles, personal, local, national, and global, are fundamentally based
in our perceived need to hang onto the world in here, our issues with
the world out there, and, our failure to focus more on the world we
share.
In the free countries of planet
earth we can express our personal views without fear. What makes life
really worthwhile is when we can share our views (without ridiculing one
another as these politicians did on this particular day) and come
together with a shared view, which may mean we let go of things we
previously held dear.
I trust that today and
every day you will resolve to build more of the world we share and be
less precious about the world in here or the world out there.
Be the difference you want to see
in the world.
Ian
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About the Author: Ian Berry RSS for Ian's articles - Visit Ian's website Since 1991 I have partnered with passionate and enlightened leaders in changing what's normal for the good of yourself, other people, our planet, and for profit. My specialisations are:
A sparkenation is a word I created to denote: a spark that ignites passion that leads to action that changes what’s normal. You can check out my books outline, download 3 sparkenations with my compliments, or purchase here. Click here to visit Ian's website 13 key reasons why most change programs fail Being comfortable and uncomfortable in our own skin a thank you to Steve Jobs The five pursuits that turn possibility into reality Leadership fails without management A pathway to possibility Part Four |
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