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Article Overview: Affirmations are not only a creator of motivation, alignment and discipline. They also create focus, speed and meaning to all actions in our life. Have you noticed that affirmations do not work like most self-help books say? Let us continue exploring what an affirmation needs to entail to be able to give us the benefits we so often hear they can bring.
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How to use affirmations to find meaning and move faster 2(2)
Affirmations are not only a creator of motivation, alignment and discipline. They also create focus, speed and meaning to all actions in our life. Have you noticed that affirmations do not work like most self-help books say? Let us continue exploring what an affirmation needs to entail to be able to give us the benefits we so often hear they can bring.
3) Make your new way into your new habit
Most people don't recognize their habitual, almost unconscious thinking. The majority of people have habitual patterns of negative thoughts and they don't realize it because it has become a habit and part of their way of life. What if your thoughts tend to be negative? For example, thinking that you're not good enough, or that life is unfair, or that you never have what you really want or need.
If you're not aware of your dominant thought, you may put yourself in a downward spiral without even knowing about it. A person may be worrying about being over-weight, being a bad manager or being unfit as a parent. Even if these persons are using affirmations their habit of worrying may get in the way. To become aware of our dominant thought is crucial to overcome it with a new powerful, positive affirmation.
Let's face it; to worry about something is making what we are worrying about very real. Why do we otherwise worry about it? I mean, if what we worry about is not real it would be the same as - being scared of Santa clause when being grown up, and know he don't even exist. We need to take our worries seriously. They may impact us more than we may think at first.
You need to become consciously aware of your negative thoughts and you can't pretend that they don't exist. You need to either acknowledge these thoughts and replace them one by one with a positive thought or simply accept the condition or reason for these negative thoughts as a natural part of your being and a part of your future success. When a negative thought comes up, we need to immediately detect it and acknowledge it - so that we can exchange it with what we want to be.
One trick is to simply say "Stop" when a negative thought comes up and replace it with a positive thought. Every time it comes up.
4) Affirmation always make you take action in the right direction
This is the last and most important truth about affirmations. An affirmation in itself will not give you your end result or your achievement. It will though keep you moving in the right direction. If you notice that what you're thinking and planning stop or hinders you from doing things that move you closer to your goal - it is a waste of time.
If your actions make you stand still or even move backwards. Doing affirmations correctly will turn you in the right direction. They will always make you take action, do beneficial decisions, find information you need and make you move in a direction towards what you want to achieve. This is the power of affirmations.
We will have to make sure we are reaching our goals in a healthy way. As we move forward we will learn all about how to reach our goal in a professional and balanced way. But never let this stop you from taking the first steps in the right direction. Affirmations are an excellent way to keep us facing the right way so we can learn what we need to do to reach our goals.
Focused meditation, praying, visualizations and affirmations are according to my experience all part of the same concept. They are all helping us get ready to become what we want to become or get ready to achieve what we want to achieve. Be it a better person, parent or just lose some weight. And doing affirmations right demands our full attention. They make every fiber in our bodies want to become the affirmation.
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About the Author: Peter J Karlsson RSS for Peter J's articles - Visit Peter J's website Peter J Karlsson is driven by developing managers and employees to reach their full potential. Thirty years working with personal development and coaching gives him rare experience and hands-on knowledge on performance coaching. His major experiences include: * Co-Founder and Executive Director at CONCHIUS. Peter has been living and operating from China since 2004. Four years of hands on research on specific challenges and how to over come these for managers working in MNC's in China. * Starting in August 2006, Peter has written weekly management and HR columns for China Daily, Shanghai Daily and Shanghai Star Business Journal. * Author of the latest research report on "How to engage the 80's generation" in China. * Certified Master Coach from Behavioral Coaching Institute. ICC accredited coach. * Certified expert in Harrison Assessments. * Participant in Atlanta Olympics 1996 in 100m dash running in the Swedish Olympic Team. Click here to visit Peter J's website Managing Cross Culture |
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