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THE ART OF STARTING A CONVERSATION

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THE ART OF STARTING A CONVERSATION

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This is best witnessed by the popularity of social marketing where not only friends speak to each another, but a third person can join in the conversation.

All we need to do is look at how we normally talk to each other to understand how to start a conversation more efficiently:



WE START INFORMALLY

As friends we are less formal with friends in emails than in direct mail. While a direct mail letter usually starts with a formal salutation like, “Dear Mr. Doe,“ the language in emails is more colloquial, cryptic and casual.

For example, “Hi Joe,“ or “Hello Joe,“ are the ways we normally address friends



WE ALSO USUALLY USE AN INFORMAL TONE IN CONVERSATION

In conversation we frequently use contractions or even start a sentence with an “and” or a “but”, a “plus” or “what’s more”.

These ways are all perfectly acceptable because that’s how we talk to each other.

The same thing is true when we express our thoughts in fragments or short sentences.

And even ending a sentence with a preposition is fine too, as long as it sounds right.



WE ALWAYS TRY AND ENGAGE THE OTHER PERSON BECAUSE A CONVERSATION IS A DIALOGUE NOT A MONOLOGUE

Even though your email may technically be a one-way conversation, you can engage the reader in a number of ways.

You can ask a question like “Did you know” or ask “Don’t you agree?”

Or you can even start the sentence in mid-conversation. For example, “So why is it so hard to attend this party?”

Additionally, you can use phrases like “you probably know” or “as you may have heard” even right in the middle of your story.



TO BE HEARD WE NEED TO MAKE OUR CONVERSATIONS INTERESTING, TIMELY AND/OR RELEVANT

“Copy that reflects current news and events usually out-pulls copy that is not written with references to current affairs," says Bob Bly author of The Copywriter's Handbook. . He adds that incorporating news into copy is even more important in email marketing than it is in direct mail.



FINALLY SINCE CONVERSING IS TALKING ALOUD, I RECOMMEND READING YOUR COPY OUT LOUD BEFORE YOU SEND IT.

That way you can check the rhythm and cadence, which is a critical part of a conversation.

Another tip: Repeating a word string works by adding an interesting singsong quality - “It was a cold, cold winter” or “It is a far, far better thing that I do.”

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BILLY SHARMA Billy holds a Bachelor of Science degree and is a Summa Cum Laude graduate of J.J. School of Art (Bombay) and the Hochshüle für Gestaltung (Bauhaus School of Design, Germany). After many years of working for other companies, Billy founded Designers Inc. In 1999 he became Managing Director and Creative Director of Brann Worldwide in Toronto. Under his stewardship the agency grew three-fold in two years when Brann Worldwide was elected the number one direct marketing agency in the world in 2000. Billy has extensive advertising and direct marketing experience gained in many national and international advertising agencies in Europe, U.S. and Canada. This has honed his creative skills to help provide breakthrough creative ideas for his clients.

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