Reverse Mastermind

Guest Contributor: Janet Napora
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Reverse Mastermind? Okay, let me explain. The goal of being in a Mastermind group is to grow as a person. Groups with a specific purpose such as Entrepreneurs looking for ways to expand their business still incorporate personal development into their formula. They realize their business will only grow as fast as they do.

Different groups have different schedules for meetings whether it's once a week or once a month. What about the rest of the time? Personal development is an ongoing journey. Who are you surrounding yourself with on a daily basis? Who are you listening to?

As we grow we begin to see things differently. The people around us don't always understand what we're doing or why. Often times they try sabotage our growth. They aren't doing it on a conscience level but because they are stuck in a different mindset. It's very easy to lose our focus through the opinions of other people.

Often times we try to explain ourselves or get the other person to understand what it is we're trying to accomplish. Personal development is a choice that we cannot make for other people. The only thing we can do is distance ourselves from them. You may ask "How do I do that?"

You don't have to cut yourself off from everyone you know. We get comfortable being around certain people even though we know they are not on the same path. The thing is something begins to happen as we grow. Our internal change begins to grow outward. People can feel the difference when they're around you. For some that difference is unsettling.

You will begin to notice a "drifting apart" happening. That is a normal progression. Don't try to change it. There will be some people that you have to be around like family, just be aware of the time you spend with them. Keep your mindset in the right place. As you continue to grow you will start to attract like-minded people. People who are drawn to the positive energy you put out. I'm not talking about some strange mystical occurrence. Like Attracts Like. It's that simple.

Your weekly or monthly meetings are a great way to hone your focus. Re-energize yourself. Life is full of challenges. Your Mastermind can give you the energy to meet these challenges head on. Don't wait for your meetings to pursue your goals. Take action every day. Leverage what you learn and apply it to your everyday life.