Good Things come in Threes

Guest Contributor: Debbie Lousberg
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Yes, I've joined yet another one! They keep getting more and more specialized and powerful. First was the fellow Career Coaches, who still meet on a monthly basis via phone; next was the Small Business owners group, who still meet every Thursday morning; and now, the 3 Friends who happen to be Coaches group, who meet at the end of each month at one member's house.

Why three groups? Because at this point in my business as a "solo-preneur" working in a unique field, I need the support of people who can clearly relate to me and my business challenges. I also belong to a few organizations for the sole purpose of networking and staying visible in the community, though I am more apt to give up those meetings over a Master Mind group meeting. As you know, Master Minders gather together to support each other and brainstorm success strategies and as my business hits a new level of growth, I cannot get enough of that!

This new group was formed as a result of friendship connections and shared business goals. Because there only 3 of us (and we may choose to stay that size for awhile), we are able to really dig deep and explore our successes and challenges. Each month, one of us is in the "spotlight" and gets to be the focus of the meeting, discussing whatever coaching or business building issue is most important. The other 2 of us listen, ask questions, challenge, and encourage. We have made profound progress and been brought to tears by insights gained from this powerful venue. All that from a party of 3!

These three groups cover all the important bases for me now - my specific coaching niche, small business development in general, and most recently, a more in-depth coaching/friendship area. So how many is too many? Don't be afraid to explore other groups you learn of. Different people, new ideas, with a unique focus can do no harm. If another one comes across my path, I'll carefully evaluate. It would have to be pretty special and fill a need not already addressed. For now, Three is the perfect number.