Mastermind Your Way to Playing a Bigger Game

Guest Contributor: Melanie Benson Strick
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What sets your mastermind apart from every other friend, advisor and support system? The fact that it is a group of individuals who come together to create a special bond that challenges each person to play their biggest game ever. I just got back from facilitating a mastermind retreat for my platinum level members (all of who are over six figures) and realized that one of the greatest a-ha's each member walked away with was where they were playing small. We get used to seeing our world through our own filters. But in a safe spaced designed to encourage breakthroughs and new possibilities, you can tap into a whole new world by seeing who you are through other people's possibilities for you.

For example, one member had become quite focused on a business offering they just knew was perfect. As the mastermind held this person to their goals, values and priorities, the member found that they were giving away a lot of value without being compensated for it. Taking that program to the marketplace the way it was would have spelled burn out and overwhelm. The mastermind was able to brainstorm a powerful program that aligned with the member's value, priorities and goals.

So how does a mastermind help you play bigger?

Here are four of the ways that a mastermind can help.

1. Spotting being busy versus being productive. It's an insidious habit to just be busy. It's hard to recognize when you have fallen into the habit. Your mastermind can help you identify if you've fallen back into the busy trap and get you back on track.

2. Recognizing if you are playing small or getting in your own way. After a while, the group gets to know you and your patterns. They can quickly and easily spot an attempt to play it safe.

3. Role modeling what's possible. Inevitably, some of the members will be focusing on different or more advanced opportunities. By doing so, they are providing a bigger game to shoot for. For instance, two of the members of my Platinum group are now focused on working less and building more "lifestyle" into their life. The rest of the group lit up and became so energized that they began to reorient their own game so that lifestyle was a part of the vision.

4. Holding you accountable. You really want to have a group who does more than just show up and brainstorm with you. You want them to want your success for you just as much as you do. Having a group buddy or a way to track accountability helps.

Tapping into the power of a mastermind is life-changing. I personally have benefited for over 15 years and see how others lives are changed through the mastermind process. Most importantly, if a mastermind is leveraged properly, you can find yourself light years ahead by simply showing up with other's who are committed to playing a big game.