Tweet

Focus Your Dreams to Make Them Come Alive

Guest post by: James Dicks

Article Overview: What will you be interested in after you buy all of those lavish things you always thought you wanted? What’s beyond the bigger car, the faster boat, and the fancier house? Whatever they are, those are the really important things.

Focus Your Dreams to Make Them Come Alive

Here is one of my favorite mental exercises. Pretend that, for once in your life, you had unlimited money and unlimited time. Don't necessarily go crazy with your thoughts, but work to eliminate those initial barriers of time and money. What will you be interested in after you buy all of those lavish things you always thought you wanted? What's beyond the bigger car, the faster boat, and the fancier house? Whatever they are, those are the really important things.

I can assure you that those of you that are a little older know exactly what I am talking about. There is a life time line where you got have more more more. I have had all the cars from a Cavalier to a convertible Murciélago Lamborghini, Bentley GT, big and fast boats etc. Now I am more focused on what counts most to me. How do you really know what is important to you? Simple, focus and take a few moments to work thru this and other mental exercises to help you laser in on those really important things. I can tell you this to accomplish your goals you must be willing to give up the not so important things, be willing to sacrifice to accomplish your truly important goals.

What 10 things would you do if you had unlimited time and money? Give yourself a few moments to come up with 10 answers, but not ones that are too long. Please write them down, either here or on a separate sheet of paper, seriously you need to do this, write it down, if you just do it on paper you won't be able to burn the image in your subconscious which is the key to positive imaging, making the dreams become reality. Well, what did you find out about yourself? One thing many people discover, as a result of this exercise, is that listing 10 items is not as easy as they assumed it would be-even with unlimited time and money. If you found that to be true-if numbers 9 and 10 came hard- then you need to dream more. Have at it! You are now free to dream.

•1. YOUR MISSION TO WEALTH TO-DO LIST 1. DEVISE A PLAN FIRST, AND THE STRATEGIES WILL FOLLOW. -You must come up with your plan first. Hildebrant's principle applies here: "If you don't know where you're going, any road will get you there." Wandering aimlessly will get you nowhere fast.

•2. TRUST YOUR MENTORS.- To get the most out of this exercise, you must put your trust in people you don't know. So I ask you to suspend disbelief. I ask you to think of me as someone you know and trust as you progress through my blogs. (There's no downside and plenty of upside.)

•3. CHANGE YOUR MINDSET.- Accumulating wealth is as much about mindset as it is about net worth. It may sound simple or even naive, but without the proper mindset, you almost certainly will not achieve your financial goals. If you do somehow achieve them, they're likely to come undone quickly.

•4. DARE TO DREAM. Dreaming is one of the first steps on the journey to financial independence. Think of Roger Bannister's four-minute mile. Think of John F. Kennedy's challenge to Americans to get to the moon before the end of the decade. You must first envision the future before it can become a reality. That may sound like another simplification (and indeed, it's only part of the story), but that's exactly what worked for me.

Don t skip this exercise. I actually sat down and did this when I was 15, as fate may have it; I found my list that I wrote some years back and realized that writing this down really helped and made the difference between success and failure. I actually wrote all my goals down, both short and long term, then I did the dreams as this exercise suggest. Over time my short term goals were all accomplished, my long term goals were really more short term and all accomplished, and my dreams became long term goals and then short term goals and then I achieved all the dreams that I had written down when I was 15. Two points here, one, do this, two update it yearly as your life's values and what's important changes and you want to be writing these changes down so that you can achieve them.

My Best

James Diks

Related Articles
  Someday Isle
  Are Your Dreams Deferred?
  Smart Women Have Dreams Too!
  “Market Research” Story
  Lesson #3: Be a Dreamer
  Subtle Shifts
  "To Dream The Possible Dream"
  Go For Your Big Dreams!
  LEADERS NEVER LET THEIR DIPLOMA FOR DEALTH CERTIFICATE
  Never allow someone to kill your dreams.
  Enlightened Millionaires: AHA Number 10
  100 Ways to Succeed #92
  Achieve Your Dreams And Never Ever Give Up
  Goal Achieving Process Part 2: Dreaming Big Dreams
  VISION
  Live The Life Of Your Dreams: The Top 5 Ways To Live The Life Of Your Dreams
  Harnessing the Miracle of Determination
  Live Your Dreams - Take Life Head-On And Live The Life Of Your Dreams
  Igniting Your Unstoppable Business Destiny
  Smart Women Dream Big

Article Tags: " financial responsibility", "business Congress", "constitutional rights", "credit cards", "financial growth", "financial responsibility", "government housing", "James Dicks", "james dicks", "market crash", "personal finance", "stock market", credit, crisis, deficit, economy, education, expenses, FICO, forex, forex, goals, interest, investing, investment, job, leadership, military, money, money, mortgage, Obama, payments, premieretrade, recession, refinancing, saving, spending, stimulus, success, Treasury, unemployed



Related Forum Posts
Re: Quote of the Day - "The only people witho - Thanks for sharing this Evan, there are some very powerful quotes in there, I particularly like this one:- You are now at a crossroads. This is your opportunity to make the most important decision you will ever make. Forget your past. Who are you now? Who have you decided you really are now? Don't think about who you have been. Who are you now? Who have you decided to become? Make this decision consciously. Make it carefully. Make it powerfully. regards, Mal.
Re: Boosting Confidence - [quote="Tami Szabo":4m5o9ufl]I’d also love to hear what methods you have for boosting your own confidence.[/quote:4m5o9ufl] Hi Tami, From a male perspective, I'd suggest the following tips to boost one's confidence: 1. Make "fear" your catalyst to take action. For example, if you're afraid of public speaking, then practice and hold a seminar. 2. Remind yourself of your past accomplishments. 3. Remember that other people in the room have 2 arms and 2 legs just like yourself (i.e. you're all equals). 4. Focus on having fun at whatever you're doing. If you focus on trying to be "perfect", you'll fail and lose confidence. 5. Take care of the way you look, whether that's how you dress, what you eat or how often you work out. If you look good, you'll probably feel good too.
The Power of Ten - Do you want to save money and time? Make the most of your marketing efforts? The Power of Ten™ is about taking the concepts of repurposing and leveraging “to the max”. It allows you to innovate and discover new possibilities for any marketing you already have in place. Here’s how it works: Make a list of the most recent 10 marketing items you’ve created or paid to have created. If you don’t have any materials, you can simply list the pieces you plan on creating. Now pick one. It could be an article, ad, poster, anything you have used recently as a marketing tool. Take a fresh look at it. Brainstorm and free write until you find at least 10 different ways to use that piece. You can do this with as many pieces as you want, but for now start with just one. It’s amazing how much time, effort and money you can save using The Power of Ten™. Below is an example using The Power of Ten™ with this very article. Even a very short piece, such as this, can benefit from The Power of Ten™. Here are some ways I can use this tip: 1) It’s part of a new marketing program I’m creating that may be called Marketing Full Circle. 2) It’s on my blog. 3) I can tweet it (knowing that it will show up on LinkedIn and many other sites which display tweets). 4) I can go over to LinkedIn and post it to a group. 5) I can it to my ezine subscribers. 6) I will send it to my clients. 7) If it is a longer article, I can try submitting it to an Article Bank, or two, or three. It started out as part of an answer on Focus.com 9) Eventually it will be part of an eBook on marketing tips. 10) I mention the concept often at speaking engagements. (c)2010 Elevating Your Business What would you add to the list? How about your own? Give it a try and comment below.
Re: Quote of the Day - ?"Where focus goes energy flows." - Tony - Focus on a single task, eliminate millions of disractions
Re: Five Personality Traits of Successful Business Owners - 1. Focus 2. Ability to Adapt 3. Hard Work 4. Good planning 5. People Skills


Share this article with your friends. Fund someone's dream.

Leave a comment below or share on the left and you'll help support entrepreneurs in Africa through our partnership with Kiva. Over $50,000 raised and counting - Please keep sharing! Learn more.

Newsletter

Get advice & tips from famous business
owners, new articles by entrepreneur
experts, my latest website updates, &
special sneak peaks at what's to come!

Name:
Email:

Popular Articles

Four Reasons Why Entrepreneurs Should Blog

Your Local Small Business Online Marketing Funnel

E Mail Marketing Campaigns

Suggestions

Email us your ideas on how to make our
website more valuable! Thank you Sharon
from Toronto Salsa Lessons / Classes for
your suggestions to make the newsletter
look like the website and profile younger
entrepreneurs like Jennifer Lopez.