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Success in life, both personally and professionally, is dependent upon our ability to successfully interact with the people around us. There is no success without positive relationships in our lives. A successful relationship is not a relationship without conflict. There is no such thing as a relationship without conflict; therefore, a successful relationship is one in which conflict is resolved.
Too many people make the mistake in their personal or professional lives of avoiding conflicts and simply not dealing with them. While, in the short term, this tactic may result in a brief period of peace, the reality is that the conflict continues to build to an unmanageable point when it explodes, often making a resolution at that point impossible.
The solution to this is quite simple: deal with all conflicts the day they arise.
My wife and I have had a policy for many years that has served us well. We deal with any potential conflict immediately. If a problem is not dealt with the day it arises, it is considered out-of-bounds at the end of the day. This forces you to either let the situation go or deal with the conflict immediately before it multiplies into something unmanageable.
We have all been in situations where someone irrationally explodes over the most minor situation. In their mind, it is not a minor situation, because they are dealing with a massive pile of issues that they have let accumulate over weeks, months, or even years. Then the proverbial straw breaks the camel's back and irreparable damage is done to that relationship.
Ancient wisdom teaches us, "Don't let the sun go down on your anger." Either release it or deal with it while it's a minor issue, and every day you will start out with a clean slate with all the people you deal with in your personal and professional life.
Today's the day!
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About the Author: Jim Stovall RSS for Jim's articles - Visit Jim's website Jim Stovall has been a national champion Olympic weightlifter, the President of the Emmy Award-winning Narrative Television Network, and a highly sought after author and platform speaker. He is the author of the best selling book, The Ultimate Gift, which is now a major motion picture starring James Garner and Abigail Breslin. Steve Forbes, president and CEO of Forbes magazine, says, “Jim Stovall is one of the most extraordinary men of our era.” For his work in making television accessible to our nation’s 13 million blind and visually impaired people, The President’s Committee on Equal Opportunity selected Jim Stovall as the Entrepreneur of the Year. He was also chosen as the International Humanitarian of the Year, joining Jimmy Carter, Nancy Reagan, and Mother Teresa as recipients of this honor. info@jimstovall.com www.narrativetv.com www.ultimateproductivity.com Click here to visit Jim's website. Historical Perspective Productivity Over Activity Old Friends and New Inspiration The Desperation Solution A Lesson from a 4YearOld |
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