Evan Carmichael Top Header about About About facebook Twitter YouTube Google+

Why is Selling So Difficult?



Free PDF Download
Everyone Can Sell. Not Really. Top 10 Reasons Why Not - By Dave Kurlan

Name: Email:


Wouldn't it be nice if selling was as easy as most salespeople treat it? You would just come right out and say what you're selling, tell prospects why it's important, explain the features and benefits, tell them what it costs, and make the sale. After all, that's how we did it in the 60's and 70's. It's so easy. It's so logical, it's so ineffective. Why is selling so difficult? I have a number of answers....


Prospects don't buy because of logic and they have difficulty making decisions when presented with logic. Strategies and tactics exist and are constantly refined because selling by telling rarely works. Yet a huge percentage of salespeople, perhaps your salespeople, even salespeople who have been trained and coached to be more consultative and customer focused, still find it easier to simply tell to sell. Questions to uncover compelling reasons to buy seem unnecessarily complicated to most salespeople. But if they don't learn to effectively ask lots of really good, tough, timely questions, there won't be many places where they can hide.


21st Century Selling requires salespeople to have and follow an effective process, to have strategies for varying scenarios, and to be armed with the tactics needed to move an opportunity through the sales process. Salespeople skip steps because they mistakenly assume that the compelling reasons they talk about are the same as their prospects' compelling reasons. They assume that prospects are talking with competitors and getting the business is simply a matter of price. They assume they are speaking with decision makers. They assume their prospects have and will spend the money. They assume to know the time line for a decision. They assume to have a great relationship. And the one thing they are really good at - presenting solutions and explaining capabilities - they do before they know what a needs and cost appropriate solution should be.


So why is selling so difficult? There are two primary reasons, each with a subset of reasons:

1. Salespeople. In their effort to do what is most comfortable, they fail to adapt to changing times, requirements and advice. They do what makes sense to them, rather than what is required to be effective. They do what is easiest, rather than what works. They do what they know, rather than learning what they don't know.


2. Management. They allow complacent, resistant, non-adapting behaviors to exist. They fool themselves into believing their salespeople know what to do. They have the same self-limiting beliefs as their salespeople.

Why is Selling so Difficult? Because the simplest, most obvious, most important behaviors and actions are not the most effective. Anyone who has ever learned to play golf knows this all too well. In order to properly hit a golf ball, you must address the ball, hold the club and swing it in a manner that is completely uncomfortable. The difference is that with a golf swing comes an immediate result. Do what's comfortable and you can immediately see that comfort=failure. In sales, do what's comfortable and you can immediately see your prospects nods their heads up and down=Fall sense of security. You don't get the instant feedback that you need to know that comfort=failure.

Why is Selling So Difficult? So that only the best salespeople can reap the rewards that sales has to offer.


Related Articles

  Is Selling Difficult or Easy? It All Depends on Your Definitions
  What Type of Business Should I Start?
  How to Never Sell Again - No Matter What Business You’re In
  When Is It Time To Sell Your Franchised Business?
  Where's the Problem with Increasing Sales?
  Entrepreneurs - How Do You Set Your Prices?
  Improving Your Selling Skills
  Selling Power 26
  How To Sell A Business
  Effective Selling Can't Occur Until Salespeople Perfect This
  Ty Warner Quotes
  Whats Your USP
  Selling Strategies for the Scared
  Difficult People - General Principles
  What is Selling?
  What Can Be Done in North America to Help Better Support African Entrepreneurship?
  Close The Gap!
  Stupid Choices in the Selection of Sales Assessments
  HOW TO SELL YOURSELF AND YOUR WORK
  Develop an Efficient Sales Team

Home > Sales > Dave Kurlan > Why is Selling So Difficult >

Free PDF Download
Everyone Can Sell. Not Really. Top 10 Reasons Why Not - By Dave Kurlan

Name: Email:

About the Author: Dave Kurlan

RSS for Dave's articles - Visit Dave's website
Dave Kurlan is a best-selling author, top-rated speaker and thought leader on sales development.  He is the founder and CEO of Objective Management Group, Inc., the industry leader in sales assessments and sales force evaluations, and the CEO of David Kurlan & Associates, Inc., a consulting firm specializing in sales force development. Dave has been a top rated speaker at Inc. Magazine's Conference on Growing the Company, the Sales & Marketing Management Conference and the Gazelles Sales & Marketing Summit. He has been featured on radio and TV, including World Business Review with General Norman Schwarzkopf, in Inc. Magazine, Selling Power Magazine, Sales & Marketing Management Magazine and Incentive Magazine. He is the author of Mindless Selling and Baseline Selling – How to Become a Sales Superstar by Using What You Already Know about the Game of Baseball. He created and wrote STAR, a proprietary recruiting process for hiring great salespeople, and he writes Understanding the Sales Force, a popular business Blog and is a contributing author to The Death of 20th Century Selling (Dan Seidman), Stepping Stones (Deepak Chopra and Brian Tracey) and 101 Great Ways to Improve Your Life, Volume 2 (David Riklan).
Click here to visit Dave's website.
Dashed Line

Understanding the Sales Force
More from Dave Kurlan
Visual Pipeline
Salesperson Selection
Predict Sales Turnover

Related Forum Posts

Re: how many hours do you spend in here per day? Re: how many hours do you spend in here per day?
Re: how many hours do you spend in here per day? Re: how many hours do you spend in here per day?
Re: Kevin's Case Study #10 - When to become an entrepreneur? Re: Kevin's Case Study #10 - When to become an entrepreneur?
Re: This is Marketing Warfare! Re: This is Marketing Warfare!
Blog pinging Blog pinging

Share this article. Fund someone's dream.

Share this post and you'll help support entrepreneurs in Africa through our partnership with Kiva. Over $50,000 raised and counting - Please keep sharing! Learn more.
Share for a Cause



Worksheets
By: Evan Carmichael

Do you have what it takes to be an entrepreneur?

8 Powerful Steps to Finding Your Passion

Does your pitch suck?

Create a plan of attach to launch your new business.

8-Cover

Like this page? PLEASE +1 it! Evan Signature
Bottom Footer



Newsletter

Get advice & tips from famous business
owners, new articles by entrepreneur
experts, my latest website updates, &
special sneak peaks at what's to come!
Name:
Email:
Popular Articles

How to Win More Sales

The State of the Sustainable Furniture Industry

Top 10 Business Plan Myths of Solo Entrepreneurs

Suggestions

Email us your ideas on how to make our
website more valuable! Thank you Sharon
from Toronto Salsa Lessons / Classes for
your suggestions to make the newsletter
look like the website and profile younger
entrepreneurs like Jennifer Lopez.