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From Manager to Leader “10 Reasons You Need to Become a Master Questioner” - Medical Sales Training
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| Guest post by: Brian Sullivan |
Article Overview: ...it\'s about questions. The same skills needed to engage a customer are the same skills needed to engage an associate. It’s not about telling the “customer” what they need to hear. It’s about using your greatest weapon of influence to move people towards you. That weapon is…QUESTIONS.
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From Manager to Leader “10 Reasons You Need to Become a Master Questioner” - Medical Sales Training
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In the mid 90s the company I worked for
asked me and two other associates to put together a new sales training program
to be rolled out to the entire organization. I believed in the material in this
program and felt that it was vital to the continued success of the company.
After being promoted to Regional Sales Manager, I felt more sure than ever that
it was my duty to make sure every employee I touched communicated effectively.
The only problem was that while I was jamming the program down their throats, I
was breaking every communications principle I was teaching. The more I “sold”
the program, the more people felt like they were being sold.
Then one day, as my frustration reached
a peak I sought out one of the most respected leaders in the company, a fellow
named Dave Reddig. I approached Dave with this, “Dave, why the hell are people
so resistant to the program? Don’t they understand that it will make them
better?” Dave responded with, “Brian, how do you think people feel when you sit
in that car seat next to them and tell them all the reasons why this program is
so important to the company, without ever really finding out what they think
about it?”
It was that day I realized that
leadership is sales. The same skills needed to engage a customer are the same
skills needed to engage an associate. It’s not about telling the “customer”
what they need to hear. It’s about using your greatest weapon of influence to
move people towards you. That weapon is…QUESTIONS.
Why Ask Questions?
1. Questions Get Them to Tell You What
They Want and Need
Average and below average leaders TELL
the people they are leading what they should want and need. The PRECISE Leader
instead asks the employee what they want and need, and then delivers their
coaching focused on fulfilling those wants and needs.
2. Questions Isolate Real Issues from
Bogus Ones
Average and below average managers spend too much time
solving the wrong employee issues. They make too many assumptions as a result
of asking too few questions. As a result, they deliver the wrong feedback and
coaching. The next time an associate comes to you with an issue, FIRST
understand that the problem he is coming with is NOT the real issue. There is
another one that is waiting for YOU to uncover. Be patient, ask more questions,
and you will uncover the problem BEHIND the problem.
3. Questions Reduce Resistance
How do you feel when somebody is
telling you what to do? Do you stand firm and keep your walls up? Do you have a
tendency to be skeptical of what that person says to you? Remember, statements
cause resistance. Questions, on the
other hand, allow others to express themselves. When their lips are moving and
yours are not, the “coaching” environment changes.
4. Questions Make Employees Feel in
Control
People feel in control when they are
talking. When you ask questions of your employees, you are inviting them to
talk. The more they talk, the more in control they feel. The more in control they feel, the more
comfortable they are, and the more willing they will be to bring down the
defenses that make it difficult for you to do your job.
5. Questions Give the Leader Control
Lawyers are notorious for manipulating
their witnesses with questioning techniques. If you had the opportunity to
watch some of the infamous Casey Anthony case, you saw how good some attorneys
are at subtly “leading” a witness. The key word here is subtle. The most successful attorneys are ones that
empathetically question their witness, get them to share information, and then
help lead them to the attorney’s predetermined conclusion.
6. Questions Get Them Fired Up
When great leaders, speakers, and
motivators want to get their audience fired up, they do it by asking a question
that demands a response. Evangelical
ministers are masters at using questions to stir emotions in their
congregations. If you ever have attended one of these services or have seen one
on TV, you know that when the pastor asks, “Can I get an amen?” The response is
usually a resounding, “AMEN.” If that pastor wants to stir just a little more
emotion, he will ask again. “I said…could I get an AMEN!” If he has to ask
twice, watch out, that second amen will blow the doors off heaven.
7. Questions Allow Employees to Sell
Themselves
Leader: How
do YOU think we can make the team more productive?
Employee: Well, I really think it would save us tons of time and …
Your employees can sell themselves even
better than you can sell them…if you
let them. Ask them a question that
allows them to tell you how and why something can be improved. And watch how
their conclusions are often exactly what you were thinking and feeling. But
because they “thought” of it, they own it. And if they own it, you don’t have
to “sell” them on anything…because they sold themselves.
8. Questions Prepare Them To Sell to
Others
While
you may be the leader of your team, there are Captains that make up the team
when you are not around. These Captains often carry major influence with the
team and are extremely important in the successful implementation of your
message. Make it a habit to ask them questions that will better prepare THEM to
deliver YOUR message when you are not around.
Leader: “Mike, what part of our solution
do you think will resonate most with the team?”
Captain: “Well, while I think they may initially be skeptical, I
think if we remind them how it will make our lives easier, they will buy into
it.
Leader: “Mike,
how do you think it will make our lives easier?”
The more the Captain talks, the more he
is selling himself. And don’t be surprised if he gives a better rendition of
the presentation than even you!
9. Questions May Get You Better Answers
A common mistake amongst rookie
managers is that they believe that they have been given a leadership role
because they know more then the next guy. That may be the case; it may not. So
don’t assume you know the best way to handle everything. Believe, and expect
that the person or team you are coaching has input that you never considered.
By believing that the person you coach is as smart as you, you will be more
inclined to ask more and deeper questions.
10. Questioning Yourself Will Give You
Confidence
Confidence is essential in
communication, and the first person that needs to be sold on an idea or
corporate directive is you. So before
you ever enter the team meeting or individual coaching session, ask yourself
the questions that your employees might ask you. Play devil\\\'s advocate in as many ways is
possible. If you don\\\'t have the answers
to your own questions, find them. Once
you are able to answer most of your own questions, you will then feel more
certain in your mission.
So
this month, stop making so many statements and start asking more questions. By
understanding and using your greatest weapon of influence, you will no longer
be a Supervisor, Manager, Director, VP
or CEO. You will now be called Leader by the people who matter most.
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About the Author: Brian Sullivan RSS for Brian's articles - Visit Brian's website Brian Sullivan, CSP, is a member of the National Speakers Association and an internationally known expert on sales and leadership. Brian is one of about 10 percent of speakers worldwide to have earned the Certified Speaking Professional Designation awarded by the National Speakers Association and the International Federation for Professional Speakers. He delivers high-energy, no-nonsense, interactive seminars on his PRECISE Selling Formula to a companies looking to become famous in their industry. He has been quoted in magazines such as Selling Power and Business Week and is the author of the book, 20 Days to the Top- How the PRECISE Selling Formula Will Make You Your Company's Top Sales Performer in 20 Days or Less. Brian also hosts a talk radio show on Hot Talk 1510 called "Entrepreneurial Moments," a show dedicated to helping business people of all types. Brian lives in Kansas City with his wife Leanne, and children Jake, Shea, and Maggie. Click here to visit Brian's website Dont Throw the Rolls Communication Tips that Will Help You Survive the Holiday Season How to Value a Friendship Sales and Marketing Training A Great Lesson from a Stealth Leader The Referral Habit Sales and Marketing Training Story Selling Medical Sales Training |
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