Leadership is a Choice
Article Overview: A person’s position or title has very little to do with leading others.You can grant someone a title but you can’t grant them the ability to lead. Our beliefs, attitudes, state of mind and consistent actions determine our ability to lead. These are all choices we make
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Leadership is a Choice
A person's position or title has very little to do with leading others. Some people think, "When I reach the top, then I'll learn to lead" or "When I'm promoted, then I'll act like a leader." Those who think this way overestimate the importance of a leadership title.
You can grant someone a title but you can't grant them the ability to lead. Our beliefs, attitudes, state of mind and consistent actions determine our ability to lead. These are all choices we make.
While most people choose to think only about the day-to-day tasks they need to perform, leaders choose to envision the future. Then, they take problems, develop solutions, and connect with people and make things happen. That's what sets leaders apart from those who simply show up to earn a paycheck.
If you're not leading, it's because you haven't make the CHOICE to lead.
You can choose to sit back and watch problems unfold by saying, "It's not my job." Or you can choose to step up and do something about it from wherever you are in the organization.
To do this you simply ask, "How can I be of help in this situation?" Then, catch a vision, take action, enlist the help of others, get feedback, learn from your mistakes and take more action.
Do you want to lead at a higher level? Title doesn't really matter. What truly matters are the decisions you make and the actions you take as you play the game. The choice is yours.
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