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When you FEEL good not just think positive, you attract more good stuff into your life

Guest post by: Malti Bhojwani

Article Overview: Use your memories and your fantasies and your dreams and desires to create positive and fabulous feelings. It IS as easy as that! Truly! So how do you MAKE yourself feel good when you have negative thoughts or anxiety or sadness from a lost love or fear of not having money? Well, perpetuating on those thoughts will only attract more sadness, anxiety, lack into your life, so guess what? You don't have a choice if you want to be happy!

When you FEEL good not just think positive, you attract more good stuff into your life

EVERY time and I mean EVERY time you notice a sad, disempowering, scarry, anxious, helpless thought cross your mind, train yourself to switch it! Just like you would turn on a light switch! Switch it! Have in your "reserves" positive thoughts that make you FEEL good even if just for a few moments. It is enough. As you make a habit of alwaysssssss switching to a positive, feel good thought and you actually experience the "good-feelings", even if they are naughty thoughts that bring you there, you are vibrating on a higher level that can only attract more positivity into your life.

I have been deeply inspired by Lynn Grabhorn and by Napolean Hill.

The actual "how-to" is simple, think of something that makes you FEEEEEEL good. (anything) and then while you are feeling those good sensations, imagine yourself "flowing out" these good vibrations outwards. You need to aim at something, so aim it at people or even objects around you, feel yourself "giving out" the positive, fun, happy, joyful, euphoric sensations to a fruit, the flowers, a painting in your room, your couch, anything!!!! Just keep doing it.

Make this your habit. Even if you think it is stupid, or if people around you think you are crazy, I would rather appear stupid and be happy than appear right and "normal" and be miserable. What do you choose?

Use anything to make you feel good.

Even memories of past love can bring out these higher vibrations, memories of past experiences or fantasies of any sort can make you feel good. It is almost physiological.....your body and senses will be heightened and you feeeeeel good!

On the same note, never regret a lost love.

Excerpt from Think and Grow Rich - by Napolean Hill - written in 1937 - that is almost 75 years ago.

The emotions of love and sex leave their unmistakable marks

upon the features.

The emotion of love, when mixed with the emotion of sex,

softens, modifies, and beautifies the facial expression.

Memories of love never pass. They linger, guide, and influence

long after the source of stimulation has faded. There is nothing new

in this.

Every person, who has been moved by GENUINE LOVE,

knows that it leaves enduring traces upon the human heart.

Theeffect of love endures, because love is spiritual in nature.

The man or womanwho cannot be stimulated to great heights of achievement by love, is

hopeless-he or she is dead, though they may seem to live.

Even the memories of love are sufficient to lift one to a higherplane of creative effort.

The major force of love may spend itself andpass away, like a fire which has burned itself out, but it leaves behind indelible marks as evidence that it passed that way.

Itsdeparture often prepares the human heart for a still greater love.

Go back into your yesterdays, at times, and bathe your mind in

the beautiful memories of past love. It will soften the influence of

the present worries and annoyances. It will give you a source of

escape from the unpleasant realities of life, and maybe—who

knows?

—your mind will yield to you, during this temporary retreat

into the world of fantasy, ideas, or plans which may change the

entire financial or spiritual status of your life.

If you believe yourself unfortunate, because you have “loved

and lost,” perish the thought. One who has loved truly, can never

lose entirely.

Love is whimsical and temperamental. Its nature is

ephemeral, and transitory. It comes when it pleases, and goes away

without warning.

Accept and enjoy it while it remains, but spend notime worrying about its departure.

Worry will never bring it back.

Dismiss, also, the thought that love never comes but once.

Lovemay come and go, times without number, but there are no two love

experiences which affect one in just the same way.

There may be,and there usually is, one love experience which leaves a deeper

imprint on the heart than all the others, but all love experiences are

beneficial, except to the person who becomes resentful and cynical

when love makes its departure.

There should be no disappointment over love.No experience, which touches the human heart with a

spiritual force, can possibly be harmful, except through ignorance,

or jealousy.

Love is, without question, life’s greatest experience. It brings

one into communion with Infinite Intelligence. When mixed with the

emotions of romance and sex, it may lead one far up the ladder of

creative effort.

The emotions of love, sex, and romance, are sides of

the eternal triangle of achievement-building genius. Nature creates

genii through no other force.

Remember:

The worse we feel, the worse things get;

the better we feel, the better things get.

How? Think of something nice, think of a dream you have coming true, think of sex, kisses, money, dancing, wind in your hair, look back at your pleasure list. CHANGE YOUR THOUGHT AND YOU WILL CHANGE THE WAY YOU FEEL - even if it only lasts for a few minutes.....use those few minutes to FLOW those positive, happy, joyful feelings like energy out of you.....as if you are "Sending" it to something/someone.

What we are feeling and what we are getting are always, always the vibrational match.

How we feel is how we vibrate, and how we vibrate equals how we attract.

You just have to be aware of how you're feeling in the moment. If you're feeling a bit down, you're in a problem area and that's what you need to change. It's the flowing of our energy that makes things happen.

Because we get what we focus on, we're going to get, one way or the other, more of exactly the same thing.

This is nothing more than pure physics:

You can't be focusing on what you don't want and expect to get what you do want. As a matter of fact, that's impossible. Remember the blue ball?

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