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Written by: Malti Bhojwani

Relationship = to relate with a significant other person lovingly everyday. - Click To Read Article
Look at it as a verb "to relate with a significant other person lovingly everyday" not a noun. It is a verb – continuous – you are in a relationship for as log as you are relating with this person. And if you are doing it so lovingly then you are in a goooood relationship! Whose responsibility is a relationship? 50-50? 80-20? In my opinion, each partner has to give 100% in order for a relationship to work. A real loving relationship is a partnership of mutual support and mutual pleasure and mutual respect.

TRUST YOUR PARTNER IMPLICITLY – OR don’t be in the relationship! - Click To Read Article
Simply put, intimacy, love and trust go together. In order to be intimate (physically, emotionally or spiritually), we have to let our guard down and be vulnerable. This requires a sense of emotional safety on both sides, and a belief that our partner will not betray or intentionally hurt us.

When you FEEL good not just think positive, you attract more good stuff into your life - Click To Read Article
Use your memories and your fantasies and your dreams and desires to create positive and fabulous feelings. It IS as easy as that! Truly! So how do you MAKE yourself feel good when you have negative thoughts or anxiety or sadness from a lost love or fear of not having money? Well, perpetuating on those thoughts will only attract more sadness, anxiety, lack into your life, so guess what? You don't have a choice if you want to be happy!

The Power of Intention and of declaration is key - Click To Read Article
I personally experienced it again in such a powerful way. I was committed and I declared that I would be here, friends around me could not believe how I was going to be able to do it, with my injury, but now we also know that I was holding-off, "postponing" a severe sore-throat too, for AFTER the presentation. When you really want to do something, and you decide that you will, you will!

Heart broken? How to let go and move on to be truly happy again. - Click To Read Article
You felt like the Universe conspired to bring the two of you together against all odds and all the signs were positive and pointed in the direction of the two of you being together. Astrologers said you were meant for each other, people said you looked great together, most of the time, you were on Cloud 9, when together, photographs of you two looked fabulous, friends thought you were "the couple", you pre-empted each other's desires so often, and were so so sensitive to each other's moods. You fit almost like hand in glove most of the time, you danced and sang to the same rhythm and ate the same food and loved the same wine. You were made for each other. Two lost souls who were incomplete and sad and lonely, found each other.....and then...one day, it was all over. How do you let go of a relationship like this?

“Happy Talk and Happy Thoughts” Negative thoughts are BAD for you - Think happy thoughts and use happy talk to attract positivity - Click To Read Article
Your natural state is health and well-being, and this is promoted and maintained by positive energy, positive thoughts, positive talk and good feelings. Negative energy is simply not good for you. It causes tiredness, irritability, illness and disease. If it's in your system, it needs to be eliminated and to be kept out. I believe the only way to keep it out is to replace it with positive thoughts and words. You cannot “not think of a blue ball”. You have to think of a yellow ball.

How to develop the habit of having more EMPOWERING thoughts rather than Disempowering ones. - Click To Read Article
Watch your thoughts. Be like a sentry, a watchman noticing every thought you have... "all that we are is a result of what we have thought" Thinking is a habit. How we think is a habit. Habits take time and careful watching to replace. You can’t stop thinking a certain way, you just have to start thinking a new way. So how do we develop healthy thinking habits?

Love Strategies - How to make your relationship satisfying - Click To Read Article
If you knew how easy and almost effortless it would be to make the person you love feel good, wouldn’t you just do it? Especially when you were aware of the good feelings it would invoke in the other and therefore infuse back to you? It sounds so easy and almost mechanical, but it is so effective and not doing it is so detrimental to the relationship.

Fear is more incapacitating than pain. The paradox is that what we fear most is pain. - Click To Read Article
Let's say just for the sake of this discussion that there are 2 extremes - Pain and Pleasure. And only 2 life purposes - to have more pleasure and get away from pain. Pain and Pleasure. And the biggest "fear" in life is pain. What if we KNEW that the pain would not be as bad as we fear it will be. Like my experience at the dentist? How freeing would that be? Empowerment!

Forgiveness - Letting go in order for you to be able to give again. Forgiving = For giving - Click To Read Article
It is a way of releasing yourself from the need for the person you feel hurt by to do anything to make you feel better. And there’s no requirement that you forget, but simply forgive, as in let go of the holding on of the pain, and the holding the other person responsible for your happiness. See them as having done the best they could, even if it was very worst for you. It was still the best they could do. And let go. See that you too did the best you could at the time. See my article - "How to let go and move on from regrets"

DO YOU NEED A RELATIONSHIP TO BE HAPPY? - Click To Read Article
Regardless of if you are single out of choice or if you are in between relationships, you can create and enjoy a fulfilling life on your own.

The Law of Atrraction – Does it work? - Click To Read Article
More and more people are awakening to the concept of attracting desirable outcomes in life rather than living a life out of default. Recently, “The Secret” by Rhonda Byrne took the world by storm, even Oprah Winfrey was intrigued enough to invite her to the show. It divided people into two – believers and non-believers.

HOW CAN A LIFE COACH SUPPORT ME IN GETTING WHAT I WANT ??? - Click To Read Article
What do you want? What do you really really want? When was the last time you asked yourself that question? Most of us are wrapped up in the day to day of our lives, and like a hamster, we run and run as fast as we can, panting and puffing, making a lot of noise running within his wheel, only to come out to have a look around and see that everything is the same, in exactly the same place. Nothing has really changed. From time to time, it is just necessary to stop and ask ourselves, what we want and if we are "running" in the direction of our dreams, and unlike the poor little hamster, going nowhere!

Marriages may end but families are forever - Click To Read Article
Our marriage was falling apart and we completely hated each other. Our child's world was crumbling, too. It was at this exact time when we needed to work constructively as parents.

Be, Do, Have - Click To Read Article
As the Great Jedi Knight Yoda says, "Try not do, there is no try"

Emotional intimacy - The Essential Daily Requirement for the health and longevity of your relationship. - Click To Read Article
“Into-me-you-see” Without intending to stereotype the genders, as soon as I sent out a “survey” and asked people to share their views on intimacy, somehow most of the women sent in their feelings of what Intimacy means to them on an emotional level and most of you guys out there sent me stuff that made me blush.

Do a Once-Over - Click To Read Article
Sometimes all we need to do is check to make sure we have all the stuff that really matters.

Trust&Faith vs Fear&Doubt - Click To Read Article
People often behave exactly how we expect them to behave with us. If we trust, they are trustworthy.





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