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What Is Happening On Your Outside Is An Indication Of What Is Happening For You Inside.
| Guest post by: Harriette Blye |
Article Overview: What happens in your life is never about another person, place thing or event. It is always about you. Look at what is happening around you and in your life. Your life is a reflection or your mirror of what is going on inside you. It is up to you to see and feel these events as gifts that you can use to improve a part of your life that is lacking, no matter how bad you think these events are. Have you noticed that some people seem to not let events bother them and the same situations worry you endlessly?
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What Is Happening On Your Outside Is An Indication Of What Is Happening For You Inside.
What happens in your life is never about another person, place thing or event. It is always about you. Look at what is happening around you and in your life. Your life is a reflection or your mirror of what is going on inside you.
It is up to you to see and feel these events as gifts that you can use to improve a part of your life that is lacking, no matter how bad you think these events are. Have you noticed that some people seem to not let events bother them and the same situations worry you endlessly?
This means that you have a different perception of the events. You and I interpret events through the beliefs we hold. You and only you have the ability to choose how you perceive and view what is happening in your life. Only you decide how you react.
This is an example: I went into the dressing room of a local store with more than (3) items which was the limit. There was no one waiting so I did not think it was a problem to take in (5) items.
Someone reported me. The manager came back and knocked on the door and complained loudly and stated that I was removing tags from the garments and replacing them with cheaper ones. There were tags on the floor and could be seen under the door.
I could have gotten huffy and angry. Instead I opened the door and apologize for bringing in more items that I should have. I assured her that the tags were there on the floor when I entered the dressing room by showing her my items.
If I was full of anger I would have given her an angry reply. That is what would have mirrored me. The manager would have gotten angrier and the situation would have escalated.
I choose the path of love. I was full of love inside. She calmed down and apologized profusely. We both apoligized and I continued to shop forgetting the incident. When I checked out the manager gave me an additional 50% off my purchases. When the store manager verbally attacked me I immediately knew she had anger inside and she had some heavy situations going on.
I could have viewed the manager as attacking me and attack back. I had a choice, I chose love. It's all about how you choose to view what is happening to you. No matter what the event is. If you feel anger and express it you get anger back. Look in the mirror to see what feelings you are sending out. If you feel love and kindness this is what you get back.
What is going on inside of you mirrors what is going to happen on the outside. Know this with certainty. Whatever unpleasant energy you carry within gets reflected back as the energy you are receiving from others.
There are no mistakes, no coincidences. All events are blessings given to us to learn from --Elizabeth Kubler-Ross!
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