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Become One Of Those People - Go For the Gusto!

Guest post by: Jackie Mckay

Article Overview: How are you doing at life? Do you ever notice that some people just seem to have life figured out?

Become One Of Those People - Go For the Gusto!

QUOTE - "Often people attempt to live their lives backward; they try to have more things, or more money, in order to do more of what they want, so they will be happier. The way it actually works is the reverse. You must first be who you really are, then do what you need to do, in order to have what you want."

~ Margaret Young, singer

How are you doing at life? Do you ever notice that some people just seem to have life figured out?

They are doing work that they genuinely enjoy, they have balance between home, work and play, their finances are healthy, they bring joy to others despite the appearance of doom and gloom in the world, they maintain committed to their goals, they have strong relationships that keep them connected in the community and with the rest of the world, and they live life with gusto.

I used to think these people had good luck, were born into a special kind of gene pool, were born with money or just knew the right folks. I've been filling my life with these kinds of people over the last few years and in doing so am realizing my perspective was very, very wrong. Turns out these people actually WORK at their lives on a DAILY basis.

Here is what I've noticed. They know what is important to them and they stand by their values. They know what they want and they don't back down. They are aware of their strengths and aren't afraid to share them with the world because they know they will only inspire others. They live their life according to their own rules and don't worry about what others think. Oh, and they take risks despite feeling scared.

Are you one of "those" people? Or are you one of the people feeling envious of "those" types? More often than not I have client's who want coaching on this very issue. This is when it becomes clear they've become temporarily lost from their true selves.

Now here is something I want to share with you ..."those" people are just like YOU. The only difference is they found the secrets on how to live a yummy life before you did and they continue to WORK at it DAILY. They aren't smarter, cooler, more creative or more resourceful than you. Turns out, they aren't afraid to act a little funny or coo-key or risky and they revel in being their true selves. How refreshing isn't it! Trust me, at one time I thought they were gifted or more special until I decided to try a new mindset on, get support, find mentors and follow through on my own scary commitments I made for my life.

Are you ready to take an honest look at yourself to determine what you need for your journey? You are just as entitled as the next person to be who you want to be, have what you want to have and do what you want to do. If you're finally ready to stand up for your life and become one of "those" people (or more of your fabulous, yummy self), here are a few questions you may want to ask yourself.

• Do you have difficulty putting your own self care first?
• Are you afraid of being "selfish" and putting others needs before your own?
• Do you feel resentful or envious of others (this is hard to admit!)?
• Do you spend your days doing activities that leave you feeling exhausted or frustrated?
• Does "have to" fuel your energy or joy?
• Do you spend time rushing, mind racing, and moving in full throttle?
• Do you feel trapped by debt and demands of daily life?
• Do you feel like you're doing it all yourself?
• Do you feel isolated and disconnected from others?
• Do you long to share a connection with others who have similar values?
• Do you feel shy about sharing your true colors and gifts with the world?

You're Success Assignment

Your answers to these questions will give you an idea of how well you're doing in your life. And don't worry, you're not alone and you're perfectly normal if you answered yes to most of the questions. This is where I started and this is where many of my coaching clients start!

Notice, where you are in your life right now. Don't ignore the evidence any longer. This is step one of my Yummy Living System. Decide what is pressing on you to change - finances, career, relationships, health etc. Next, create a plan of ACTION to work towards your new reality and start taking steps to get the support you need to make it happen. Life is a lonely game when you decide to do it alone. This world is set up to support us in designing the homes we want, losing the weight we want, working at careers we are passionate about and creating the lives we desire.

So, you know that thing you keep thinking about doing - even if it is a little "crazy". Yeah, the first one that came to mind just now. This week, write down the action steps you will take, and then the FEELING you will have after accomplishing it at the end of the day. Focus on that feeling and just begin it. Period

Remember, "those" people are simply people who are willing to get clear on what they want, and get out there and share themselves with the world. Are you willing to do that? It's a new way of looking at your life: the no-excuses, authentic approach. Once you do, life just feels yummier every day.

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