What's Your Motivation?
|
| Tweet |
|
Free PDF Download Why Time Management Is Overrated - By David Bohl |
It's become a joke to wonder "what's my motivation?" like an actor, when we have something in front of us to do and just can't seem to get it done. We may complain that we just can't get motivated to do something.
What we usually mean by this is just that we don't want to do it right then, or maybe it all.
Motivation is not just "wanting" to do something.
In fact, motivation is the force behind doing something, including the desire, the need, the energy, and the actual doing of it.
Interviewers often ask job applicants about their motivation, whether they're self-motivated or "self-starters." The correct answer, of course, is yes.
In fact, no one is motivated by just one thing, and what motivates us at one time may not be very motivating at all at another time.
For example, if you're taking a course in calculus, you may be motivated to study for my test by the fact that you need to get an A on that test in order to insure an A in the class. However, if you're taking a class in a subject you're more confident in, say contemporary events, you may find it hard to study for a test because you know that you have made As on every test so far, and that you do not have to do as well on this test.
Often in our jobs we think we're motivated to work by the money we make, but often we could make just as much, or more, at another job.
What motivates us at work may actually be a love of our work, or a need to please our boss, or a desire to finish this project so we can move on to something we enjoy more.
Because motivations vary so much, it is sometimes hard to feel motivated to do something, whether that is to complete a project at work or attend a family function like a wedding or anniversary party.
The reason it's hard to find our motivation in these cases is that we don't want to do whatever it is, and we don't have a strong sense that we will get something positive out of it or suffer consequences for not doing it, that we feel "motivated."
Relying on a "feeling" of motivation in order to do what's in front of us to do is not the best way to take care of our obligations.
Being a responsible adult sometimes means doing things we don't want to do or don't feel motivated to do, or finding a reasonable alternative to doing them now by postponing or changing our plans.
To see how motivation works in your own life:
* Write down your motivation for each action as you take it
* When you don't feel motivated to do something, think about what you are motivated to do
* Examine what makes you want to do or not do things over the course of the next week
Related Articles
|
Free PDF Download Why Time Management Is Overrated - By David Bohl |
|
About the Author: David Bohl RSS for David's articles - Visit David's website David B. Bohl has been on a truly unique journey. Prior to launching his coaching practice, David gained his life’s experience and knowledge as an entrepreneur, business owner, venture capital investor, and philanthropic patron, as well as from the hierarchical world of a global investment bank. Upon "succeeding" at each stage in his professional life, David slowly began to realize that a change was in order. It seemed that instead of reveling in the joys of life, he, like most of us, had bought into a seemingly impossible mandate - a relentless strive to get further in life at almost any cost. He divested himself of all of his business holdings and began his pursuit of a more enjoyable and rewarding life. In time, David established REFLECTIONS Coaching LLC, where he now serves as a personal coach, lifestyle mentor, educator, and author. To learn more about this step-by-step strategy for Living YOUR Life YOUR way, and to sign up for his 9 FREE Tips for Finding Happiness in a Fast-Paced World, free teleseminars, free Special Report, free bi-monthly ezine and more, go to: http://www.SlowDownFAST.com Click here to visit David's website. Is it possible to have it all and do it all 7 Ways You Can Start Balancing Your Life Whats Your Motivation The Truth About Information Overload Life Balance What Is It |
Related Forum Posts
Share this article. Fund someone's dream.
Share this post and you'll help support entrepreneurs in Africa through our partnership with Kiva.
Over $50,000 raised and counting - Please keep sharing! Learn more.
Featured Article
Internet Users Hbk - Chapter 14b Forex (FX) Follies - A gamblers heaven
By Dr Don Yates Sr PhD, Avoid Online Scams
Trending Articles
|
|
Like this page? PLEASE +1 it! |
Newsletter
Get advice & tips from famous business
owners, new articles by entrepreneur
experts, my latest website updates, &
special sneak peaks at what's to come!
Get advice & tips from famous business
owners, new articles by entrepreneur
experts, my latest website updates, &
special sneak peaks at what's to come!
Popular Articles
THE TOP 5 HIDDEN DANGERS FOR SOCIAL NETWORKING
Balancing possessions and life harmony
Are you dialed into radio advertising?
THE TOP 5 HIDDEN DANGERS FOR SOCIAL NETWORKING
Balancing possessions and life harmony
Are you dialed into radio advertising?
Suggestions
Email us your ideas on how to make our
website more valuable! Thank you Sharon
from Toronto Salsa Lessons / Classes for
your suggestions to make the newsletter
look like the website and profile younger
entrepreneurs like Jennifer Lopez.
Email us your ideas on how to make our
website more valuable! Thank you Sharon
from Toronto Salsa Lessons / Classes for
your suggestions to make the newsletter
look like the website and profile younger
entrepreneurs like Jennifer Lopez.







