By Mike Schultz

One is the loneliest number.

- Three Dog Night

I got a bad grade on my final paper in Entrepreneurship class in graduate school. The professor said, "The business you're proposing to's not different. Other people do it. While the plan seems well-thought-out, due to the simple truth that this business has been largely done before, and there doesn't seem to be anything truly unique about it, I wouldn't advise launching the business." (So long, stellar GPA...)

Being different and unique seems to be highly regarded by folks that think about, write about, and teach business.

Professors Terrell and Middlebrooks of the Northwestern University’s Kellogg School of Management and University of Chicago Graduate School of Business, respectively, say it well:

Service companies need to dare to be different. To find a leadership position in the market…and then to lead. The key strategy is to be different from competitors…They break free from “be better,” internally oriented initiatives to “be different,” externally oriented strategies. Being different is grounded in providing customers with unique value that they cannot get from any other competitor.[1]

They then cite McKinsey as their first example of a "different" business.

The need for being different is so well accepted, it’s considered simplistic to even make the case for it. Why make a case for something everyone already knows? Many conversations on being different thus center more on how to be different and how radically to be different. (Terrell and Middlebrooks go as far as to say you should position yourself so far opposite competitors that they coin the nifty term “oppositioning” to describe it.)

That we need to be different at all…accepted without further thought.

I disagree. Put some further thought in it. Most everything I’ve read and heard about being different and unique is wrong and I suspect the same is true for you.

On Unique Selling Propositions

Among the favorite platitudes of the high priests of business is that every business—nay, every person—must have a Unique Selling Proposition (USP). A USP can be defined as doing or saying something about yourself or company that is unlike what anyone else does or offers. In other words, unique…one of a kind.

I deliver about 40 speeches and presentations per year. During presentations, I frequently ask the members of the audience to take a few minutes to deliver their elevator pitches: they use a minute or so to describe themselves to the CEO of the company they would like to win as a client.

When they’re done, I ask folks to raise their hands if their partner delivered a fabulous elevator pitch. Many hands go up. When I ask what was so great about them I typically hear things like: they were clear about what they do, what difference they make for their clients, and which industries they serve. Often I hear of stories told that brought their companies to life.

I then ask who has heard of the concept of a USP, and who has been told at least once in their business lives that they need to have one. Most hands go up. I then ask whose elevator pitch partner said something unique. Usually no hands go up, but here and there a bold person or two jump into the fray. In the end, good as their elevator pitch partner’s delivery might have been, most people back off their stance that their partner was unique.

The Unique and Different Label

Too often in elevator pitches, and in marketing messages in general, professional services firms ill advisedly label themselves as unique and different. A quick Google search for “unique consulting firm” (with the quotes, so it would get results that only had these words in a string), yielded close to 4,000 sites. Here’s one from the first page:

[Firm Name] is a rather unique consulting firm…Our target audience is composed of those firms that seek quality rather than quantity and price. Our company specializes on small and mid size businesses, but we are looking for clients that are less worried about prices, than exclusive services and results that they will receive. Thus, a price conscious client is not really suited for our firm; our services are of high quality and slightly higher priced, but the customer service and end results are virtually almost exceeding the client’s expectation.

(Author’s note: I tried to find more professional sounding copy including the term “unique consulting firm” but it was all pretty much like this. Can’t make this stuff up, folks.)

Once a firm labels itself as unique, it begs the question from the reader: “Is it really unique [or, as in the case of the firm above, “rather unique”] while, at the same time, ‘virtually almost exceeding the client’s expectation'?” Ugh.

Should the answer be no, and by and large it is, the firm loses credibility. More than anything, they sound like they’ve read in some marketing or sales textbook that they have to have a Unique Selling Proposition. Thus they use words to that effect.

Many admit later just how amateurish their USPs sound, and sometimes acknowledge that they thought it sounded amateurish before they launched their unique-speak publicly. Firm leaders tend to have good common sense radar, but seem to check common sense at the door when it comes to self-designated uniqueness.

Some firms seem to take the quest for being different literally, creating a spate of “we’re different” messages. Consider a top Boston law firm with the following message: “At [Firm Name], we practice law differently. While our attorneys agree that results drive our business, building relationships with our clients and providing value-added service is the key to our success.”

This firm might be amazingly good, and from what I know of their reputation they are. However results driving business, building relationships, and providing value is pretty par for the course from both firm goals and marketing copy standpoints.

What Clients Really Want

Much as they might hear otherwise, being different isn’t much of a factor in winning or keeping clients. Often times, the “we’re different” message affects them negatively. Consider the following scenario: Your tooth hurts and your dentist is out of town. You need an oral surgeon and you need one fast, so you ask a few trusted close friends, Trip and Beverly, if they know anyone.

Referral #1: Close friend Trip suggest Dr. Phlox.

He says that his aunt Deanna needed oral surgery and went to Dr. Phlox. Phlox has been in the town next door for 20 years and has a very busy oral surgery practice. Word on the street is that he’s pretty solid. When aunt Deanna went in, the doctor took the time to explain the surgery and what was going to happen, and took the time to answer all the questions that Deanna had.

The surgery went fine (for all they knew) and Deanna hasn’t had any problems since. He’s a little more expensive than average, but Deanna says he’s very booked and established so it’s understandable.

Referral #2: Close friend Beverly suggests Dr. McCoy.

Supposedly McCoy is well known throughout the nation as a cutting edge oral surgeon, often going where no other oral surgeon has gone before. He has a unique blend of people at his office, process for oral surgery, and tooth technology that he has pioneered. His results, says his brochure and website, are 22% better than all other oral surgeons, which is how he justifies his very high prices.

His uncle Pavel went to McCoy and all went well with the surgery (for all he knew), though uncle Pavel only met McCoy for about 30 seconds as he was so busy.

At a gut level, even with uncle Pavel’s satisfaction, few people would choose referral #2. This is because many of the dynamics of how clients buy business to business professional services are similar to how people choose dentists:

Should failure happen, the consequences are painful.

You don’t need the world’s greatest outcome. You just need a very good outcome.

Since you can’t sample a service like you might sample a piece of gum, you have to rely on reputation, experience, and expertise as proxies for expected results.

Price is a factor, but you’d rather not skimp when the outcome is important. (Side note: if I told you that Dr. McCoy’s innovations have enabled him to charge less than half of what other oral surgeons charge, would you have been more interested in buying his services, or less?)

Innovation in the sense that the doctor does something different than others, or is somehow unique, by and large won’t tip the scales of purchase preference in the favor of the innovator.

So what is it that clients are, indeed, looking for? In my experience and research such as Wellesley Hills Group and's benchmark report, How Clients Buy, most buyers want to tell service providers the following:

Reliability. Do what you say you are going to do, and be on time about it. (This is first because it's so important. If only the service providers I've worked with in my life were better at keeping their commitments...)

Accessibility. Be there when I need you.

Impact. Help me buy the most helpful and impactful services from you, and help me translate your services into success for my business in my industry.

Fit. Be a good fit for the specific needs that I have. If you're not the best fit, help me find a provider that is. Don't shoehorn your service into something that, in the end, won't meet my needs as well as something else.

Importance. Make me feel like we are, as a client, important to you and your team.

Service. Deliver great service as well as great services.

Prudence. Be careful and do your homework before you suggest a course of action for me.

Research. Stay on top of the developments and trends in your industry and in mine.

Listening. Understand my business, my team, and my clients so you can come up with ideas relevant to me.

Teaching. Help me understand what you’re doing. I might not be an expert in your area, but I’m pretty bright and I make the decisions here. Help me understand what's new in your area of expertise so I can apply that knowledge in my business.

Business Management. Run an efficient operation and constantly improve so I don't pay for your inefficiency.

Relationship Management. Be pleasant and fair, and work with me through communication or other breakdowns on your end or mine. In essence, treat me like a person.

Different situations warrant different mixes and degrees of the above. For example, with many necessary-type services like Sarbanes-Oxley compliance, efficiency is important as well as expertise. On the other hand, buyers looking to hire product innovation consultants will likely be less concerned about efficiency, and more concerned about the creativity and innovative thinking of your team.

Regardless of the mix of what’s most important to your buyers, you probably won’t see many of them inserting this into the list of client wants: Different and Unique. Be one of a kind, offering something that no one else in the market offers.

So be different: stop listening to the continuous pleas from consultants, marketers, and textbooks to be different…one of a kind…a shining beacon of newness in a sea of same-old same-old.

Focus instead on actually delivering the value to the market that you say you deliver (which, in and of itself, can be uncommon if not unique), and find ways to create a conversation with buyers around that message. Not only is it better marketing, it’s less lonely than being unique.


[1] Terrell and Middlebrooks, Market Leadership Strategies for Service Companies. © 2000 McGraw Hill. Pg 31.


Mike Schultz is President of RAIN Group, a sales training, assessment, and sales performance improvement company that helps leading organizations improve sales results. Mike is author of Rainmaking Conversations: Influence, Persuade and Sell in Any Situation (Wiley, 2011) and publisher of

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